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America's Gun Control

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wonderingdaily · 28/03/2023 16:07

Gun violence, I really don't understand it, well i do, but the arguments "for" guns are very weak at best.

How is this still going on, why have they not tightened gun control similar to the UK and other countries.

My heart goes out to the people affected by the recent school shooting.

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Britinme · 28/03/2023 21:50

You probably need rather more power than that. As I said, try actually finding some stuff out about them.

Matildapower · 28/03/2023 21:51

There is no reason to give ordinary people access to assault rifles

newyorker74 · 28/03/2023 21:54

Ah - it's time for the 'all of America and Americans are the same and I know bc I went there once or my husband's, brothers, aunts godmother lives there' thread. Always a joy when these pop up. I really can't be bothered answering all the comments here but would just beg that people do some reading on how the American political system works - the difference between local and federal powers and influence, the constitution and amendments, the supreme court and Citizens United before commenting. There is a lot wrong about my adopted country (and a lot of people trying to fix it) but it's tough to have that conversation when people are answering without actually knowing what is and isn't possible.

MarshaBradyo · 28/03/2023 21:56

Wallaw · 28/03/2023 21:48

That's a valid point but a different argument. For the sake of accuracy, the estimate is somewhere between 30,000 and 45,000, much of which is due to poor preventative care in the uninsured and that number is getting better due to the Obama/Biden insurance reforms. The NHS, meanwhile, is certainly doing its best to level the statistical playing field when it comes to a lack of preventative care.
*Many of the people dying from lack of healthcare, by the way, are in states controlled by the lawmakers who want no gun control as they are the same lawmakers who refused to accept federal funds to enact Obama's health care reforms to make it affordable/accessible.

But back to the initial point. The refusal to accept gun control is a self-inflicted population-level wound that is resulting in the deaths of innocent people. Brexit is a self-inflicted population-level wound that is resulting in the deaths of innocent people.

I am a huge gun control and believe healthcare should be available to all, by the way.

There’s no shortage of threads on Brexit, NHS, U.K. on mn

This is about gun control which is an interesting topic in its own right.

No one has to post on it but I don’t see why the conversation always has to come back to things like Brexit and the U.K.

The US gun situation is problematic and despite some saying a majority want change it doesn’t look like that will happen.

I’m not sure why voting won’t lead to change though if many want it to

Wallaw · 28/03/2023 22:13

MarshaBradyo · 28/03/2023 21:56

There’s no shortage of threads on Brexit, NHS, U.K. on mn

This is about gun control which is an interesting topic in its own right.

No one has to post on it but I don’t see why the conversation always has to come back to things like Brexit and the U.K.

The US gun situation is problematic and despite some saying a majority want change it doesn’t look like that will happen.

I’m not sure why voting won’t lead to change though if many want it to

Well partly because the initial title of the thread (now changed) was a gleeful something like Are All Americans Stupid. I realise what this thread is about, but my point is that it's easy to point at other countries' self-inflicted damage while glossing over your own, which benefits no one.

And the answer to your question is that it's more complicated than just voting. American politics are really very complicated and it's impossible to understand them without a decently deep dive into Supreme Court decisions on the transparency of political funding and judicial appointments and campaign finance and lobbyists and secretly funded think tanks and media and social media manipulation and algorithms.

Just as many Americans are convinced to be afraid of governments taking their guns, British people were convinced to be afraid of immigrants taking their jobs and healthcare. Many of the same forces are at work behind both of those beliefs.

I'm reposting the article I just posted because I do think it's a useful beginning for anyone really wanting some understanding
https://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2014/05/nra-guns-second-amendment-106856/

How the NRA Rewrote the Second Amendment

The Founders never intended to create an unregulated individual right to a gun. Today, millions believe they did. Here’s how it happened.

https://www.politico.com/magazine/story/2014/05/nra-guns-second-amendment-106856

pornyshroudofturin · 28/03/2023 22:34

If the Second Amendment prevents gun control, why not restrict sales of bullets instead? As a very minimum they could all be stamped, recorded and traceable?

DdraigGoch · 28/03/2023 22:35

They have gun crime, we have knife crime.

@Whammyyammy they have knife crime too, and their knife crime alone is worse than our knife crime, never mind the gun deaths. The US homicide rate (adjusted for population) is more than ten times that of the UK.

DdraigGoch · 28/03/2023 22:40

SmoothSeasDoNotMakeGoodSailors · 28/03/2023 16:37

Why is it schools that are so often the target though? Why not shopping malls, or hospitals or I don't know - anywhere else where people congregate?

They hit those too. It's so commonplace that it rarely hits the news. School shootings do attract more attention from the media so you're more likely to hear about them.

BritWifeInUSA · 28/03/2023 22:45

PoBaFla · 28/03/2023 16:19

I do remember a number of years ago, after yet another of these tragedies, Obama making a speech about how America is the ONLY developed western country in the world that has this school shooting problem.
He read out a big list of of all other comparable western countries that do not have this problem.
And still they didn't get it🤷🏼‍♀️

That’s actually inaccurate. Proportionately speaking, when you take the number of people killed in a school shooting as a percentage of the population, even Finland has a bigger problem than here. There are a lot more incidents here, but we have a much bigger population than most other countries.

And the worst massacre in a school here (in terms of the number killed) happened without a single shot being fired.

Guns are our right, per the constitution. I’m a responsible gun owner. No more reason for me to give up my guns than there is for you to give up your car.

DdraigGoch · 28/03/2023 22:46

LifeExperience · 28/03/2023 17:40

Gun totin' American here. All of you who think a gun ban would be easy are parading your ignorance. How do you tell people who live in Alaska, the Rocky Mountains, the Appalachians, etc., that they can't have a gun for self-defense? In just the past year, I've had a bear on my back deck and packs of coyotes running through my back yard. Copperheads keep trying to take up residence in my driveway culvert, and I've seen a few cats bigger than bob cats about, although panthers aren't supposed to live here. I guess nobody told them that.

We do not live on a tame little island here. We have vast areas where, if you DON'T have a gun, you're freakin' stupid. Now tell me how we implement a gun ban.

You licence them and limit the sort of weapons they are allowed to possess. Shotguns and hunting rifles are perfectly legal in the UK, people hunt here too (I had roast pheasant on Sunday). No one needs to own an AR15.

Parker231 · 28/03/2023 22:50

BritWifeInUSA · 28/03/2023 22:45

That’s actually inaccurate. Proportionately speaking, when you take the number of people killed in a school shooting as a percentage of the population, even Finland has a bigger problem than here. There are a lot more incidents here, but we have a much bigger population than most other countries.

And the worst massacre in a school here (in terms of the number killed) happened without a single shot being fired.

Guns are our right, per the constitution. I’m a responsible gun owner. No more reason for me to give up my guns than there is for you to give up your car.

No one is a responsible gun owner. A gun is a killing machine. Is life so bad that you feel so unsafe?
Sounds like you value the constitution more than the lives of school children.

Ktime · 28/03/2023 22:50

WeeOrcadian · 28/03/2023 16:30

I think that calling the majority of a (huge) country 'stupid' is ridiculous.

That said, I don't understand the appeal of guns. I don't consider people who DO like them, stupid though.

I do agree that countries that do not have such lenient gun laws, also do not have mass shootings.

Remember: guns don't kill people, people kill people.

Remember: guns don't kill people, people kill people.

Can’t believe you posted that with a straight face.

BritWifeInUSA · 28/03/2023 22:51

newyorker74 · 28/03/2023 21:54

Ah - it's time for the 'all of America and Americans are the same and I know bc I went there once or my husband's, brothers, aunts godmother lives there' thread. Always a joy when these pop up. I really can't be bothered answering all the comments here but would just beg that people do some reading on how the American political system works - the difference between local and federal powers and influence, the constitution and amendments, the supreme court and Citizens United before commenting. There is a lot wrong about my adopted country (and a lot of people trying to fix it) but it's tough to have that conversation when people are answering without actually knowing what is and isn't possible.

Well said! And they reckon we “don’t get it”. Along come the armchair America-experts because third-cousin Bob lives in Tennessee or they’ve been to Florida more than once. I give up trying to explain things. They don’t get it. And that’s fine, they don’t need to because they don’t live here. But don’t tell us what’s wrong with the country.

1Week · 28/03/2023 22:54

Parker231 · 28/03/2023 22:50

No one is a responsible gun owner. A gun is a killing machine. Is life so bad that you feel so unsafe?
Sounds like you value the constitution more than the lives of school children.

That's a very silly remark.
There are 10000s of responsible gun owners.

Parker231 · 28/03/2023 22:56

BritWifeInUSA · 28/03/2023 22:45

That’s actually inaccurate. Proportionately speaking, when you take the number of people killed in a school shooting as a percentage of the population, even Finland has a bigger problem than here. There are a lot more incidents here, but we have a much bigger population than most other countries.

And the worst massacre in a school here (in terms of the number killed) happened without a single shot being fired.

Guns are our right, per the constitution. I’m a responsible gun owner. No more reason for me to give up my guns than there is for you to give up your car.

https://wisevoter.com/country-rankings/gun-deaths-by-country/

Gun deaths by 100k population. US - 4.21. Finland - 0.21

Gun Deaths by Country 2023 - Wisevoter

Gun deaths by country vary widely across the globe, with some countries experiencing high rates of gun deaths while others experience relatively low rates. According to Our World in Data, the top three countries with the highest gun death rates per 100...

https://wisevoter.com/country-rankings/gun-deaths-by-country/

Parker231 · 28/03/2023 22:59

1Week · 28/03/2023 22:54

That's a very silly remark.
There are 10000s of responsible gun owners.

If you have a gun in your hand, you are not being responsible - what is that gun for - to use to kill somebody - hardly a responsible act.

Rainbowsandbutterflies1990 · 28/03/2023 23:02

BritWifeInUSA · 28/03/2023 22:45

That’s actually inaccurate. Proportionately speaking, when you take the number of people killed in a school shooting as a percentage of the population, even Finland has a bigger problem than here. There are a lot more incidents here, but we have a much bigger population than most other countries.

And the worst massacre in a school here (in terms of the number killed) happened without a single shot being fired.

Guns are our right, per the constitution. I’m a responsible gun owner. No more reason for me to give up my guns than there is for you to give up your car.

So r u saying genuinely that ur right to own a gun is more important than live of a child and also the truma of the children who have been in crowfire but not actually killed. If u could be told that no one child would die in mass shootings (I know this is obviously not really going to happen as cannot be 100% true but hypothetical) if u gave up ur gun would u do it?

FlyingPandas · 28/03/2023 23:05

It is desperately sad, and seems tragic to people outside the country, but I think unless you are American you will never really understand the whole 'right to bear arms' and 'constitution' thing. Let alone the huge complexities of the political situation.

The bottom line is that many Americans will value their right to own a gun over everything else, including the lives of people. Gun laws will never be changed. People will continue to die. I honestly don't think that it will ever change. I suspect that the vast majority of Americans believe that multiple deaths are a price worth paying to keep their guns.

Rainbowsandbutterflies1990 · 28/03/2023 23:07

I also wonder if ur mind would change if it was ur own child who died. Obviously I would never want anything to happen to anyone .

TrishM80 · 28/03/2023 23:08

A fucked up country. It's getting to the stage where they'd rather have every school, church, shopping mall, concert venue, you name it, armed to the teeth as a "precaution" like some sort of open air high security prison, rather than tackle the issue of access to assault rifles.

But you know, "Land of the Free" and all that.

1Week · 28/03/2023 23:09

Parker231 · 28/03/2023 22:59

If you have a gun in your hand, you are not being responsible - what is that gun for - to use to kill somebody - hardly a responsible act.

Like I said.
Silly.
This is a serious topic.

user1471447863 · 28/03/2023 23:17

I do love the argument that the whole gun thing is part of their constitution and as such is unchangeable.

Except it isn't - its an amendment, a change, to their constitution - it's literally right there in the name, the 2nd Amendment rights they love to bang on about.

Are they as keen on all 27 amendments to their constitution?
What about amendment 18?
Or amendment 21? or the fact that amendment 21 repeals 18. 18 was the Prohibition amendment—banning “the manufacture, sale, or transportation of intoxicating liquors.”

So there is precedence for amendments to be overturned or simply brought up to date.

And frankly, unless you are sleeping with your loaded handgun under your pillow it's not going to be much use to you when the fabled bad man breaks into your house in the middle of the night. The likelihood though is you'll just have a bad nights sleep as I imagine they are pretty uncomfortable to sleep on or you'll shoot your spouse when they get up for a piss in the middle of the night. And when you get up your in the morning and your dog jumps on the bed they'll likely shoot you too. And that before you throw kids in the mix.

Parker231 · 28/03/2023 23:17

1Week · 28/03/2023 23:09

Like I said.
Silly.
This is a serious topic.

Not silly at all - no one should have a gun in their hands. You’re not then going to be responsible.

DSil lives in US - told me not to drive like I would in London. Too risky to act as an ‘aggressive’ driver as you have no idea whether the driver next to you at the lights has a gun on the seat next to him.

MarshaBradyo · 28/03/2023 23:22

Guns are our right, per the constitution. I’m a responsible gun owner. No more reason for me to give up my guns than there is for you to give up your car.

Under what circumstances would you use your gun?

user1471447863 · 28/03/2023 23:23

Too risky to act as an ‘aggressive’ driver as you have no idea whether the driver next to you at the lights has a gun on the seat next to him.

Wonder how many of these gun on seat drivers have had to brake suddenly, gun gets flung off the seat and goes off accidently and shoots them (ironically) or the kid in the car next to them (sadly more likely)?

There has to be an issue if your back to school essentials include a bullet proof schoolbag

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