To castrate BIL a la Lolita? I think he will go for it considering his other option is castration a la Shiny....

[ShinyAndNew]

Aka I will take a rusty razor blade to his bits hack them off, blend them up and feed them to my cat.

He had unprotected sex with my uber fertile sister. She is now pregnant. She loves children, she loves her children. According to him they don't have enough space so she should abort.

Perhaps he should have thought about that before he has sex with her sans condom, no?

He now wants 'a family' chat about this. Aka his family talking at her about how she get an abortion. I like this idea. The family talk I mean, I am family, as is my other sister, my mum and my dad. Although after seeing the state she has just been in, castration would be favourable to the family talk.

WTF has it got to do with his family anyway? And who does have enough space for another child?

But it's okay he says. They can try again in a few years

Why on earth was your uber-fertile sister having unprotected sex if they (as a couple) are not ready for another child?

Surely she knew he wasn't wearing a condom?

He is out of order but, she can just tell him to fuck off, can't she?

She isn't bothered about having another child, she would have liked to wait another 6 months I think, but she is happy to have another child now. He knew that. They were both drunk. He is blaming her.

She'd better tell him to fuck off. I know she won't abort. She could never live with herself. I just hope she doesn't listen to any of his shit and upset herself anymore than she already is. He is just as responsible as she is. He knew he had no condom on too. He was happy enough on the night, he should live with the consequences.

he should absolutely live with the consequences. what a twunt. and an even bigger twunt for getting his family involved.

it takes 2 to tango! he sounds like a twat, but so does she for having sex when she knew she was fertile!!!!

nightmare situation tho

porcamiseria, she was using that method where you count how many days since your last period and work out when you ovulate. She thought she wasn't ovulating. Imo, she ovulates permanently. She can get pregnant by just looking at penis. So you are right, she should have known better. But she is happy with this. She admits that it's not the best timing and she would have rather waited longer, but they did both want another child in the future.

I still can't my head around grown up men having unprotected sex and then acting surprised when their sperm causes a pregnancy. FFS. Should have got a grip on that basic fact of life at the age of 12!

Your BIL is being an arse.