when u go on a single website u expect them to be SINGLE

[justsue]

Ok new topic for me, the old one was getting boring

I have been on a dating website tonight and was chatting to this really nice fella, had loads in common was laughing thought we were getting on really well. Then he drops the bombshell.

"No I am sort of single still living with the ex but we grew apart she does not like sex anymore and we dont talk, but only together for the sake of our 12 year old son"

Response from me: Get of dating websites, sort your marriage out if not then tell your son its not working and THEN move on.

I do not think I was being unreasonable to call him a fxxcking wxxnker

ooooooooo - hello Justsue - how lovely to see you not whinging about us all

YANBU at ALLL to call him a fucking wanker (and I'd have done it without the XXXXX's in the middle )

2yrs ago when I first split with exH I went out for a drink with a friend and was happily being chatted up by any bloke that cast his eye on me . Most sat and talked and then wandered off - no problem.

Then this one bloke we seemed to be hitting it off................then he dropped the bombshell he was still "happily" married and living at home with his wife and child and had no intentions of leaving her

I slapped him round the face (in the pub ) and called him a fucking cheating bastard. (in my defence I was verrrrrrrrrrrrrrry VERY drunk by this point and I don't actually remember slapping him in the face, but I do remember what I told him, and my friends, and his mates (none of whom took issue with the fact that I'd done that to him) all assured me I did.

Good on ya tocc, in my defence I only whinged bout this site a couple of times (omg my nose is growing).

This fella was so fudging charming, fantastic eyes, had all the chat and I was almost "OMG i have to meet him, he is local etc and fancied the arse of him. Tossers the lot of them xxx

I keep getting annoyed by all the married men trying to have "discrete" relationships with me. I always turn them down nowadays but it's a big waste of time on both sides. You could try putting a line in your profile saying "No married men" nut they never seem to read it.

Thank god it's not just me! - Aren't there websites for that kinda thing! Cake and eating it...

You can never underestimate how thick some men are.

I'm thinking of putting a line on the top of my profile saying "If you're married and contact me I will try to find your wife and tell her what you're up to!" Subtle but might work.