I agree that the proof should be an exact representation of the finished product,and in my case it is. On a 46mm proof you can clearly see with the naked eye if it is in focus or not. You can also enlarge with a magnifying glass. The reason for the writing over the proof is to make it more difficult for the customer to scan. You'd have to laugh though, I once went into a house and there on the chimney breast was a 20 by 16 framed pic... complete with "Proof" in 3 inch high letters.
Re your refund request... I would guess he is being deliberately awkward as you have had a strained relationship in previous years. I still think you should persue it.
Re the astute thing. Togs have been forced to go along the proof route because of unscrupulous parents. If 100% of parents could be trusted to either pay for or return full size packs, and not scan them, I would go back to "sale or return" tomorrow.
If you just want a record of your child, as you have a Nikon, why not take said child outside on an overcast day, find a neutral background, set camera to a largish eg f5.6 aperture to thrown the background out of focus, use a longish focal length on your zoom to flatten the perspective, and blast a few frames off. You can buy the mounts at lots of places. Sorted.
Schools do make money out of photo day. They wouldn't have us in otherwise. This money helps in the education of the children. They are also asking for more and more freebies like staff boards, giant display posters etc. The schools often make more out of it than the tog.
re nameing and shaming. Your ex tog has no idea who MilaMae is and probably doesn't read this forum. However probably best left alone as he might cut up nasty, if he did trace you
You didn't answer my suggestion that you try being a school tog yourself.
To finish. Assuming I was the tog at your school, what exactly, would you like me to provide. State the price you would be prepared to pay for..
Pack A... 1 off 10/7 + mount
Pack B... 2 off 10/7, 3 off 5/7, 2off 5/3.5, 4 off 3.5/2.5, 6 off minis + mounts
Pack C.... 1 off color 10/7, 1 off B/W 10/7
2 off colour 7/5, 1 off B/W 7/5 4 off 5/3.5,
Sheet of 30 micros, sheet of 9 minis, no mounts
Pack D... image on a CD
What is the minimum amount you think a tog should receive for providing you with an image.
What % do you think we should give to the school from the GROSS takings (not the net ex VAT)
How much PA, Gross, do you think a hard working full time school tog should earn.
If you (or any one else) provide that info, I will tell you if it is viable.
I love a good discusion!
Thank you