To cut story short was having my first night out and we thought we would ask our parents if they would like to babysit, however due to my mothers ill health she was unable. We then asked my inlaws who turned round and said only if your desperate and cant find anyone else. WTF!!!!. We now dont want to ask her as i only want people genuinely interested to babysit in the future. I am being petty to think like this?