to want to forget that my life is sh** for a couple of hours

[xstitch]

and just do some puzzles on the computer. Feel like I am losing it tonight and want to forget everything.

I don't mean not look after dd, jst switch off for a bit while she is asleep.

Nothing wrong with that - enjoy your puzzles! It will probably do you good to be able to switch off for a while if you are having a hard time.

i was same as you the other night, its amazing what a good nights sleep can do....rest,rest and more rest is what you need.

YANBU, do what it takes.

Er, within reason...

xstitch, I know the feeling. Hope you got some quiet time to relax

Yanbu. We all need some time to ourselves, whether it be enjoying some puzzles, a book, some tv, a bath, or whatever.

Nowt wrong with that! Hope you are feeling better today.

what's up xstitch?

Just everything getting on top of me. XH dragging me through the courts, my mum nagging me, stress at work. Ending with my mum telling me I was being irresponsible for wanting to switch of for a bit.

WTF!! switch off all you like! everyone needs to now again!!

Relax! Unwind - you'll be better able to deal with life if you aren't completely stressed!