Tether...end of !

[bananalover]

AIBU in feeling at the end of my tether?
DH, kids, everything...had enough.
Am so pissed off atm I am like aseething mass underneath, and anybody who so much as looks in my direction, especially today, has had the hairdryer treatment.
WTF is wrong with me? Why am I so ANGRY with everone and everthing atm?

Oooh I don't know just one of 'those days' probably. I have enough of them myself tbh.

Anything in particular?

I was like this last week, combination of tired kids/tired me/crap day at work/blah blah blah....

have an early night might help

an early night in my house would consist of going to bed BEFORE the kids do.
feel like i never get a minute to myself...am typing this with ds waffling on about bloody world cup.
main thing is i am really pissed off cos dh told me to get a hobby, something ust for me to enjoy.
thought i would try gardening...dig out border, soil too hard, too many stones, kids throwing soil everywhere, etc.
dh just watching me through window and laughing, BASTARD. HE TELLS ME TO GET A HOBBY THEN TAKES THE PISS...THINK I WILL USE HIM AS FERTILISER.
seriously though, do others just get to stage where they pack a designer holdall and bugger off to a posh hotel?

I'm planning a day like that on Thursday- first day I can think of when imploding won't affect anyone/thing else. I'm bloody looking forward to it as well!
Seriously, banana- have a shower/bath, good cry/shout, go for a walk/run, just work off some off that frustration, hope you feel better soon x

Don't get mad, get even. Get a hobby that gets you out of the house whilst he looks after the children. A course or gym maybe, followed by long hot relaxing sauna? Oh and get him to pay for gardner. A good looking one.

Don't worry, we all get like this sometimes, combination of hormones, tiredness, hard work day in and day out, just try and do something, 1 thing in the day for yourself. Have a bath, with a a glass of wine, lock the door, candels, whatever small thing makes you feel better.

Here's a big hug heading your way

Have another hug. I was feeling like this earlier and MN cheered me up ... maybe a good satisfying yell at your DP would do the trick? I think everyone is entitled to a few rants per month.

Yabu. Think about people like me who may never have kids and re assess how you feel.

You're not. Hope you had a good sleep... there have been nights when My DH and DS(3) have kissed me goodnight!

must say after yelling at DH, glass of wine, shower and sleep...good advice, feel so much better and levelheaded again...thanx.

Good.

Glad. Another hug

you took up doing the garden...with the kids as a hobby?

are you insane?

hobby = no kids. watch the cunt laugh then.

go get a hobby - out of the house - salsa dancing, drum lessons, guitar, knitting socks for crocodiles who gives a shit