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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

To think that mn can bring out both the best and worst in people.

21 replies

DidEinsteinsMum · 19/06/2010 11:28

And that actually it is very good at representing the rl mix of personalities.

I love the support that I get here but right now I am getting irrationally irratated by words on a screen. I know it is time to walk away again for a while but before I do.

AIBU to think in balance the good outways the bad and it is worth coming back to again and again?

OP posts:
BecauseImWorthIt · 19/06/2010 11:29

I think you're right, but not sure if that makes you unreasonable!

Wordsonascreen · 19/06/2010 11:30

what did I ever do to annoy you

compo · 19/06/2010 11:31

Yes sounds like time to bog log off

DidEinsteinsMum · 19/06/2010 11:32

Ah the mighty wordsonascreen not you personally the general concept.

OP posts:
Wordsonascreen · 19/06/2010 11:34

No

Don't try and back track (mighty .. pah !)

You all hate me don't you

[its all about ME ME ME]

[shows worse side]

Mumcentreplus · 19/06/2010 11:39

I agree...but you ignore ignore ignore! when people piss you off..or take a break as suggested...I've just come back from a break..lol...scary when you think about it...taking a holiday from MN..

Just13moreyearstogo · 19/06/2010 11:49

I've left and come back many times - it's a bit of an addiction that's hard to break. Fundamentally, I'm nosy and like to see what's happening in other people's worlds. The anonymity of the genre is probably what allows members to give vent to their most unpleasant sides but the same anonymity allows those who are feeling really low to ask for help that they couldn't access in RL. On balance I think MN is a force for good.

Sammyuni · 19/06/2010 14:56

Yes there is good support but there is also very negative and somewhat rude responses here also.

Sammyuni · 19/06/2010 14:56

But then what would you expect with real people comes a mixture of real attitudes just like real life.

pagwatch · 19/06/2010 14:58

I think you are right.
But I see that broadly as a good thing - I like knowing thatthere are people out there who are capeable of being wonderful as it makes me happy. And I like knowing thatthere are vile, angry and bullying types as it stops me being blase about the world my children and i step into.

bibbitybobbityhat · 19/06/2010 14:59

I do think the good outweighs the bad, many times over.

NothingLeftToGive · 19/06/2010 15:13

The worst thing about mn is that so many people feel that they can pontificate on subjects that they know nothing about, zilch, nadda... It depresses me sometimes to see how many truly stupid people there are in the world.

On the plus side, I've learned a lot from the more intelligent posters.

pagwatch · 19/06/2010 15:19
Wordsonascreen · 19/06/2010 15:23

Stupid is as stupid dones.

onebatmother · 19/06/2010 15:25

roffle stupid is as stupid drones.

NothingLeftToGive · 19/06/2010 15:26

Lol @ pagwatch.

However it's sometimes downright offensive.

I've seen people basically attacked with the most inane, ignorant rantings. It's really quite pathetic.

Yet there are some really quite fantastic mn people too.

Downdog · 19/06/2010 15:29

YANBU - I am both reasoned & vent here.
Time to take a break for a bit - or at least avoid AIBU for a while?

diplodoris · 19/06/2010 17:14

YANBU but I hope you stay. MN will be worse if the nice people leave!

McSnail · 19/06/2010 17:23

I leave and come back all the time. Always with the same name though...

I dunno - I don't get pissed off or anything by MN, but sometimes the predictability of responses is a bit tiresome. So I log off and shop on Ebay/ talk gash on another site do something else. The after a bit, I copme back, because I do like MN.

McSnail · 19/06/2010 17:24

Jesus, will you look at all those typos...

For shame.

HalfDay · 19/06/2010 17:25

The navel gazing is one of the worst things about MN, so yes, YABU

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