To think that dd nursery should not let her nap beyond 4pm

[Reallytired]

My 13 month dd is still awake. the nursery let her sleep for 2 and half hours. ie. from 1.45 to 4.15pm. she is now full of beans.

If the nursery is going let dd have such a big nap so late then they should baby sit her so I can have a glass of wine in peace! lol

I can't say whether or not this is unreasonable TBH. My DS 17mo goes to bed happily at 7pm when he sleeps til 4pm. Have you stated to your DDs nursery your preferred nap times?

Depends on whether you've asked them to wake dd up after such-and-such period of sleep, imho. 1.45pm seems quite late for a 13 month old to go down for a afternoon nap - my ds is knackered by 12.30pm at the latest.
If I didn't want my dc sleeping so long or so late, I'd just let them know.
Hope that she surprises you with a lie in!

Just realised the time! Bear in mind that "full of beans" at this time probably indicates over-tired!! Bed, pronto IMO.

Did they not wake her up for food? I thought (in my very limited experience) that nursery tea times were around 3.30.

It's a long time since 4.15!! Good luck.