So paranoid, is this offensive??

[tightwad]

fecking hell.

friend who i havent seen for years found on fb.

has doen a bungee for charity and put about it on face book thingy.

i posted that this was fantastic and that i could not do this because i get on the trampoline with ds and a little bit of wee comes out hehehehe

next posting is "WHAT! why are you bieng offensive?"

do they mean me or are they replying to a private message do you think?

Wasnt bieng offensive at all....how could she think that??? was she thinking that???
ahh jeez

Does she have kids?

I'd put "eh? what ARE you on about?" or something

yes,

dunno if i should ask did she mean me??

What charity was it? I only ask because if it was a charity for people with incontinence for example then yes it could be seen as offensive. otherwise she is being rather strange.

I too would enquire to find out what the hell she's on about.

If you want to know for sure you're going to have to ask I recon. Just post 'Did you mean me being offensive?' then at least you'll know.

I'm sure it's like you think and they're talking to someone else

LOL! Dont think it was for incontinence!

as i recall she never had much time for me back then,

hate bad feeling, do you think she meant me?

Yes, ask!

it's funny, forget it then block them forever

Maybe she's just a bit prudey and meant Too Much Information?

Maybe she finds wee offensive?

Agree with Lewisfans' response.

Maybe she keeps her fb page very sanitised because of who is on there? Grandma/neices, nephews/boss etc??

And doesn't want them hearing about some stranger's wee?

Not offensive, but definitely TMI for someone you don't know well. I'd find it quite strange to have someone share that on my fb page, but I am possibly a bit of a prude!

maybe she has a wet patch chip on her shoulder?

because she wet herself while doing said bungee thingy?

she has a great sense of humour usually as i recall.
otherwise OBVIOUSLY i wouldnt put some thing like that on.

Lol, I thought the wee joke was funny (if that helps at all....). Ask her and, if it is you she has taken offence to, then it seems a bit petty.

So, someone you haven't had any contact with in years pops up on your fb page and tells you they wee a bit while jumping on their trampoline.

And you don't think that is at the very least a bit odd? If my mum was reading my fb page and saw a comment like that she would be offended. It is the kind of thing to giggle over and joke about between good friends in conversation but a completely bizarre comment to make on another person's page.

I'm that you've announced to all her fb friends tht you wee on the trampoline!

Still not offensive though- have you had a reply back?

I think what you wrote to someone you have recently got in contact with, on her fb wall, was really odd actually. Sorry.

I'd have laughed too... but some people are weird!

hardy odd, they were discussing this on grumpy old women the other day. was hilarious!

we have been messaging back and forth for about a year.

senses of humour failure, its not odd, its humour.

i didnt go out thinking how can i piss her off and make her gasp in horror??

hmm?
it was light hearted with NO swearing, no nastyness, jsut to say what a fantastic achievement i couldnt do it!
seriously, offensive??

sent a tentative private message asking did she mean me.

Hopefully she didn't, and it's a misunderstanding.
Horrible feeling when you offend without meaning to.

No, i don't think it was offensive but i suppose it might have made her look twice. She sounds like she had a sense of humour failure however.