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to eradicate the words 'chavvy' and 'common' from the MN lexicon

267 replies

OrmRenewed · 02/06/2010 10:34

They are lazy words. They mean 'anything that I don't like and am not'. If you dislike something enough to issue a sweeping and insulting comment about it, have the decency to give accurate and precise reasons for it.

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biddysmama · 02/06/2010 10:35

can i keep chavtastic and chavpoline?

Ladyanonymous · 02/06/2010 10:36

What about Twunt?

I love Twunt...

PuzzleRocks · 02/06/2010 10:37

YABU
Let the deeply insecure keep their means of feeling better about themselves.

pjmama · 02/06/2010 10:37

I was just thinking the same thing Lady!

biddysmama · 02/06/2010 10:37

can we get rid of chillax as well? ITS NOT A WORD!

OrmRenewed · 02/06/2010 10:38

Yes you can keep twunt - it a good word. I don't like 'chav' in any of it's manifestations TBH biddy. Sorry

BTW what is chavpoline?

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ProfYaffle · 02/06/2010 10:38

'Common', I love common, that's my (v working class) Mum's highest insult. Usually applied to swearing teenagers.

biddysmama · 02/06/2010 10:39

the big trampolines that overrun all council estates

HousewifeOfOrangeCounty · 02/06/2010 10:40

I don't agree.

Chav doesn't mean anything I don't like - there are lots of things I don't like that are not Chav. David Cameron for one.

I don't get why people don't like term, it's purely a statement of fact.

OrmRenewed · 02/06/2010 10:40

OOh well you definitely can't keep it then. We have a big trampoline in a garden too small for it. And DC love it. Not a council estate though.

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Ladyanonymous · 02/06/2010 10:41

Common was applied to anyone who lived on a council estate according to my mum...

Relieved about Twunt..

Are we not allowed trampolines anymore?

OrmRenewed · 02/06/2010 10:41

But housewife, if you wore big gold hoop earrings you presumably wouldn't call them chavvy as you like them, but others might.

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usualsuspect · 02/06/2010 10:42

Only council houses have big trampolines? thats why I hate the word chav ..right there

OrmRenewed · 02/06/2010 10:43

I must admit most of my ire is directed at 'common'. I hate it! It seems to me the essence of petty snobbery.

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colditz · 02/06/2010 10:43

Then you also have to wipe "posh" "snobby" "middle-class" "Rah"

And "Chavvy" is simply aa summing up of "Everything I dislike about people who are poorer and less educated than myself"

colditz · 02/06/2010 10:44

I only use common when someone is claiming that their way is better, for some indefinable reason (ie ironed jeans and matching socks).

It's not common to do these things, it's common to insist that doing these things is the only way to reasonably conduct one's life.

ProfYaffle · 02/06/2010 10:45

We lived on a council estate but, according to Mum, weren't common because we didn't swear or have drunken slanging matches in the street.

OrmRenewed · 02/06/2010 10:46

Well I'm not sure. As quite a posh middle-class and possibly 'Rah' (when younger) person myself I don't find those offensive. I think I can live with them.

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biddysmama · 02/06/2010 10:47

i lived on a council estate when i was little and my friends mum wouldnt let her play with me cos i was 'common'

guess where my friend lives now?

mayorquimby · 02/06/2010 10:59

How am I going to give out about chavs and commoners? I don't think they're lazy descriptions, they're handy becasuse they're normally pretty accurate.

PuzzleRocks · 02/06/2010 11:07

How about "colourful" Mayor? That's the term my grandmother would use. Much less sneering.

colditz · 02/06/2010 11:09

Colourful.

Ugh

I'd rather someone thought I was commmon than so plain awful I had to be described with a euphemism.

OrmRenewed · 02/06/2010 11:14

Well what does common mean then mayor? Give me a precise meaningful description that does not display personal prejudice. And no, saying 'there are a lot of them' is not a meaningful definition, it means a great deal more than that.

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TheCoalitionNeedsYou · 02/06/2010 11:17

So what word CAN I use for 'anything that I don't like and am not'?

VivienScott · 02/06/2010 11:23

If we get rid of common and chavvy can we also get rid of snobby and up him/herself? They are after all just the other side of the class was.

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