to think that my DP wont have sex with me because he now sees me as an incubator for his child?

[1pregheadpumpkin]

ok well we used to have a very active sex life, and it was fantastic. DP quite a talent.

but as SOON as i found out i was pregnant, he wants it less and less whearas i want it more and more!

anyway im now 25 weeks (with a neat and not too obstuctive bump) after several blatant rejections on the basis of being tired/cold/not wanting to hurt me (not baby curiously, but me)i told him in very petulant way how i felt.

"you NEVER want to have sex with me anymore, im just an icubating unit! we used to have sex all the TIME and now it can take ages to get a reaction and most of the time you'll roll over or snuggle into me and fall asleep!!"

which was not terribly mature and he tells me its rubbish and that he really is very tired (all the time? and if I'M not too tired, how can he be? he's not growing a person!)

other than that the relationship is much the same, but i miss it.

i feel very unnatractive. like a sea-cow.

AIBU?

Sanielle No worries although if I was your dp I would be a bit worried to if you have had bleeding and difficulty ttc, I assumed we were talking uncomplicated pg.

Well, seriously, what do they think is going to happen?

What´s changed?
It´s still the woman you love!

well done OP....but hope not another few weeks before he is pleasing you in the way you like best again

He accused you of cheating and he seems to have developed a porn habit? And he says he doesn't like bjs? And very touchy about being touched in the rear? And no sex now his mission is accomplished and you're pg? He's playing away. Or gay. Or both.