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AIBU?

Share your dilemmas and get honest opinions from other Mumsnetters.

to have not picked up the sweets DS chucked all over Sainsbury's floor?

191 replies

YoMoJo · 19/05/2010 17:17

popped into local "convenience" store earlier today.

Long queue as always, which is directed along the aisle that is packed with crisps, chocolate & sweets.

More sweets & chocolates at till points.

DS (2.5 yrs) fed up of continuously being told "NO" he couldnt have any sweets/chocolate/crisps then proceeded to chuck about 10 Mars Bars on the floor whilst I packed & paid for my shopping at the till.

In protest at having to queue in the said aisle I left them all on the floor & walked out the store.

so AIBU

OP posts:
cupcakesandbunting · 20/05/2010 20:09

Chocolate AND wine, Oldmac, you bloody amateur.

OldMacEIEIO · 20/05/2010 20:12

hic , burp

JaneS · 20/05/2010 20:14

Mmmm ... AIBU to follow ski around, hopefully picking up squishy marsbars galore?

expatinscotland · 20/05/2010 20:23

No wonder there are so many rude people about nowadays.

They learn at home!

YABU.

cupcakesandbunting · 20/05/2010 20:31

No, no,no, noooooooooo Expat. Little Montague was expressing his disapproval at Sainsbury's merchandising for maximum profit, don't you know?

expatinscotland · 20/05/2010 20:34

I honestly just don't have patience for flakes, self-important divas, rude people and gits anymore.

If you'd have been in front of me in the queue, I'd have said, 'Hey, you dropped something. How about you pick that up?'

pedrothellama · 20/05/2010 21:09

Hi guys, please read the whole thread before posting, YoMoJo was venting and accepted the flaming with very good grace.

AND she was bloody funny about it as well!

cupcakesandbunting · 20/05/2010 21:22

Who're you telling to read the thread?! Not me, I do hope. I was one of the first on here, flaming OP's diva-ish bottom.

pedrothellama · 20/05/2010 21:25

[hiding behind sofa and scared of Cupcake but with a new respect in my eyes]

cupcakesandbunting · 20/05/2010 21:28

Respect? Not for me, surely? Even the cat doesn't respect me. She will one day though when I stop opening her food pouches for her.

Hullygully · 20/05/2010 21:29

I haven't read the thread and I don't care.

LeninGrad · 20/05/2010 21:31

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Message withdrawn at poster's request.

pedrothellama · 20/05/2010 21:35

Cupcake

Is your cat an 'indigo' cat then. It would explain everything.

tryingtoleave · 21/05/2010 04:02

I'm not anti-capitalism - I love shopping! I'm just not going to take any responsibility for sweets placed right where a child sitting in a trolley seat can grab them. And if the supermarket wants my kids to do some pestering I'd rather they pestered the supermarket than me.

differentnameforthis · 21/05/2010 07:50

I agree with MrsRhettButler....I wouldn't have picked them up....my child would have!

I think it is disgraceful that you left them there.

And of course the manager won't move them...chocolate by the till are a BIG seller. We have sweet free lanes here, but I don't use them as I want my dc to realise that you can't have everything you see & that you certainly don't throw stuff on the floor if you don't like that you can't have it!

differentnameforthis · 21/05/2010 07:56

"I'm just not going to take any responsibility for sweets placed right where a child sitting in a trolley seat can grab them"

So if they wanted some biscuits & threw them all over the floor...that would be OK too, would it! How about eggs...ok if they pick them up & throw them all over the floor? OK that they smash up biscuits/food because well...the manager was silly enough to put it on a shelf where your dc could reach it!

Once again, parents wanting someone else to parent for them! Tell your kids NO! Take responsibility for your child....it is up to YOU to make sure they don't throw food around that you are paying for!

Mine never do...regardless of what shelf it is on or what they do/don't want!

differentnameforthis · 21/05/2010 07:57

don't throw food around that you are not paying for!

skidoodly · 21/05/2010 08:48

Quite right trying - let the supermarkets assume the costs of the pestering.

porcamiseria · 21/05/2010 09:13

YABVVVVU

SO you think shop keepers are there to tidy up from your kid? disgusting attitude

shop elsewhere
attach toddler in buggy and posotion him away from sweets
give him a snack to distract him for the short time when you queue

nuff said!

cupcakesandbunting · 21/05/2010 09:18

I reckon that out of OP, skidoodly and tryingtoleave, at least one of them looks like this

skidoodly · 21/05/2010 09:28

yes imprison your toddler and give in to the pester power - you are worthless, how dare you think you deserve to be treated with any kind of respect by the place you spend your money

cupcakesandbunting · 21/05/2010 09:41

If you choose to shop like a commercial whore, they'll bend you over and fuck you like a commercial whore.

Sorry for the crude analogy at such a young hour.

skidoodly · 21/05/2010 09:44

So it's OK for punters to physically abuse prostitutes?

Your analogy is a poor one though because in this transaction I am the punter and the shop is the whore.

porcamiseria · 21/05/2010 09:50

I think the "prostitutes" are the hourly paid supermarket workers, minimum wage, having to tidy upo after yummy mummies (sorry OP!!!)

the workers are being fucked here, big time

cupcakesandbunting · 21/05/2010 09:59

If you choose to get fucked by a corporation then get fucked you shall. No point moaning that they weren't nice about it and didn't call you afterwards. You know what you're getting yourself into with huge supermarkets. Don't moan about it.