can i ask, for those that do earn 50k plus and still say they would struggle without help with childcare, cb etc.
what are your main outgoings? i know people have mortgages etc, but i was wondering is it partly because with a bigger income you have been able to buy a larger house or one in an area where it costs more and you could have saved money by downsizing or living elsewhere?
same with cars, could you have bought cheaper cars?
bills etc we all have to pay, gas, electric is always scarily expensive, we have done things like get cavity wall and loft insulation and a new boiler to help bring our heating costs down.
like i say i just cant imagine having a 50k income and feeling like money is tight?
i dont mean that in a judgmental arsey way, ,just that you get used to living by your means, so if you have more you spend more and if you have less you spend less ifyswim?
and i am NOT saying that you should downsize or get a diff car or have to make huge cut backs etc, i am just wondering about where money goes not that you have to tell me!