DD is 3, and she will be a flower girl at a wedding next month. Bride is a (not particularly close) old school friend, who has shown many Bridezilla tendancies so far (female guests are requested to wear pastel colours etc). I believe the only reason my DD has been asked (as neither me nor DD are close to Bride) is because DD is a pretty waif-looking doll-like child, and will be good for wedding photos!!
Bride has just sent round an email to parents of bridesmaids, asking them to ensure their children are at hers by 8:30am on morning of wedding (not ideal, but fine), for "makeup and hair", and said that all girls would be having their hair curled with ghds and put up with flowers.
I don't want my DD's hair to be curled with GHDs, surely it isnt good for her hair at that age? None of the other mothers seem to have a problem with it, since they have replied to all saying "no problem" etc.
HOWEVER..... (don't yell at me) i once let my sister curl DD's hair before using GHD's, and put pictures on fb (sigh), although regretted it a lot the next day (stupid wine made me make stupid decisions). So do I really have a leg to stand on, since I've allowed it to be done before?