in a nutshell.
my H got a call from the other usher (who is organising stag do) of their friends wedding.
suggested stag date is for edingburgh festival which is also the date of our family holiday and our sons birthday. when i point this out to husband that i would rather he doesn't take 2 days out of our week long family holiday for this it's caused a bit of tension.
i think he should just call the other usher, see how far into the organsing process the usher is and if possible come up with alternative dates/events.
am i being unreasonable to not want him to miss our sons birthday and to miss 2 days of the holiday?