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to shop someone who is screwing the benefits system?

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ilikeyoursleeves · 25/03/2010 20:13

Not sure what to do here but this situation is making me increasingly angry. My sister and her DP don't work and both are taking the benefits system for a complete ride. My sister has barely ever worked consistently (she usually lasts a few months before she chucks it), even though she is totally capable of it. My parents have doled her out lots of times and now she is with her DP who pays for everything (from money he mainly gets from his mum, even though he is in his mid 40's). My sister however continues to claim benefits and apparantly has kept on her old council flat and gets income that way (I have no idea how though, I only heard that through her DP when they had temporarily separated last year). She has that benefits entitlement syndrome going on eg, I asked her if she was returning to work after her having her DD and her reply was 'Why should I?'.

Her DP has been off his work for months now with a 'shoulder & back injury' that he got from working on roadworks. He has applied for compensation and says he is hoping to get at least £100k . If his injury was 100% genuine then fair enough, but for months he has been doing manual work on the sly, throwing his DD up in the air, doing housework and apparantly he is now working on a building site for cash in hand! He gloats all the time that his court case is coming up and how much money he might get, with a wink as he knows he is taking the system for a ride.

I have been an honest taxpayer for my whole working life and TBH I am getting to seething point about my sister and her DP. DH and I work, and have always worked, and I just think why are we doing this while others squeeze the state dry when they don't need to! I just think it would be so unfair if they get money that would take us years to earn, from them talking absolute bullshit and being totally dishonest.

So I am tempted so say something to someone but don't know who.

What do you think I should do?

OP posts:
expatinscotland · 27/03/2010 00:47

We work for peanuts. We live in council housing, well, it's all HA here.

Our former landlord rakes in £26,000/pa off his private pension plus his state pension plus free travel.

We were paying rent and he was living abroad still getting non-means tested benefits like Warm Front grant and going on holiday with it.

And I'm supposed to be getting worked up about someone getting £64/week in JSA working for a bit on the side cash in hand?

Yeah, right!

They'll be the next to offer me a few much-needed quid for some graft.

They gave me furniture when we had none.

Like I'm in a position to say no!

Save, study, budget? Are you for real? We can't do that without getting into even more debt and others who have even less are supposed to?

Sorry, but you're picking on the wrong target and you've played right into the hands of those who control your puppet strings.

LOL.

I'm insulted those exhaulted in government with their gold-plated pensions that we work to pay expect me to grass my own sister and my neighbour who gives me a cup of tea when I can't afford one.

They have NO idea. They want to make policy to protect the £20m their wife (yes, I'm addressing you, Mr Cameron) did nothing to earn and gets by pure luck.

They want to put people who don't pay tax at all (yes, I'm addressing you, Mr Zac Goldsmith, who cheated on and left his wife and family and is a non-dom) to legislate how mine goes to feed the poor?

Do they really assume I am that stupid just because we work for minimum wage?

Oh, PLEASE!

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