to not tell Dp am going to take pregnancy test in the morning?

[MadLenny]

Period is very late and if I am pregnant is most definitley unplanned. Am not in a good situation with work/money right now and would put a huge pressure on both of us if I was. Have DD 3years and would love more but really bad timing. Having said that I would not even consider an abortion - just not for me although understand why some people might.

So AIBU to have us both lying awake all night worrying when it might be negative or should I go for the problem shared is a problem halved?

YANBU, bound to have mixed feelings.

(Have learned something new about F5!)

Ah MadLenny, IKWYM. Another time perhaps, when the time is right.

YANBU about either question, I was disappointed when it happened to me even though I wasn't ready!

YANBU to be disappointed. Big glass of wine and some chocolates coming your way x