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to expect the council to house us even though DH is sshh ..... working!!

332 replies

EverSoSlightlyStressed · 22/03/2010 11:18

Landlord has a court order for possession which runs out tomorrow. Council have basically said we will have to wait for the court bailiffs to physically kick us out and then go to them with our stuff in binbags before they will provide us with anything even emergency housing which is quite a stressful thought . It could be that we have no more than 7 days until we get kicked out depending on how long it takes for the LL to arrange the bailiffs to come. Obviously I have no problem with the LL wanting us out and feel terrible that he has been forced to take us to court but it is the only way the council will help us.

BTW we are not feckless or scroungers! We have 4 DCs - youngest 2mnths old. DH works around 48 hours a week and has a relatively good wage. We are not entitled to tax credits (child benefit only) and have struggled with the massive amount we have to pay in private rent but scraped by without too much hassle. LL decided to sell house last year, we knew we would have problems renting again as we are both had to go bankrupt (1 year ago) since we moved into this house so our credit is shot and no chance of ever having a mortgage again . Current letting agents said they would not be able to rent to us again because of this as we have no one to be guarantor even though they have had no problems with us and nor will any other agent. There are no properties being advertised by individuals that would not need a credit check round here (except for shared house rooms) and anyway all 3 bed properties are like gold dust so we are in deep shit!!

The council keep telling us that as DH works we should find our own property. We keep telling them that we can't for reasons detailed above. It seems that if he was not working and we were on benefits, they would bend over backwards to help but as he is a taxpayer, they will not do anything. Is it me or is this a bit arse about face??

OP posts:
donnie · 22/03/2010 13:47

tiredmuM ARE U BOVVERED????

EcoMouse · 22/03/2010 13:51

I know at least one family that's gone bankrupt and then rented privately.

OP, it sounds to me like you're trying to pull a fast one. You've had both the time and the means to sort yourself out and you haven't.

No point throwing a tantrum because the council view others as more needy, such as those who are homeless through no fault of their own or those suffering abuse, harassment, etc.

It's because of stunts like your intended one (bin-bag charade) that families in genuine dire straits or at real risk of harm and with minute incomes (for genuine reasons) end up being shunted further and further down the housing list.

Tiredmumno1 · 22/03/2010 13:51

Hold the fort the grammar police have walked in, wondered how long it would take. I think you lot just like arguing

GetOrfMoiLand · 22/03/2010 13:53

"I think you lot just like arguing "

And your point is?

Morloth · 22/03/2010 13:53

Tiredmumno1 "I think you lot just like arguing"

No, really?

Morloth · 22/03/2010 13:54

Snap!

Tiredmumno1 · 22/03/2010 13:55

So if i am a so called racist. Does that make you lot bullies??

LadyBiscuit · 22/03/2010 13:56

Like arguing? I don't know what you mean

Morloth · 22/03/2010 13:57

Could be - cite instances in the thread where you think you have been bullied. Direct quotes please, no paraphrasing.

BAFE · 22/03/2010 13:57

just because you hold minority views, doesn't mean we're bullying you. Grow up.

Anyway, I thought you said you were going.

Tiredmumno1 · 22/03/2010 13:59

Well i suppose all us females have a tendancy for bitchiness. I have pmt whats your excuse

BAFE · 22/03/2010 13:59

I thought you said you were going.

Morloth · 22/03/2010 14:00

Oh good, racist and sexist.

Tiredmumno1 · 22/03/2010 14:01

morloth i really cant be bothered to go and re read, if you want to. Be my guest. bafe i never said i was going, others told me to fuck off. And just because i said foreigner doesnt make me a racist, anymore than i am being bullied either

Coming2London · 22/03/2010 14:02

Lol at Tiredmum calling MorningPaper thick!

Tiredmum your posts indicate that you are ...really tired or very thick.

ShadeofViolet · 22/03/2010 14:02

Its not bulling but pointing out the truth!

GetOrfMoiLand · 22/03/2010 14:03

See, reasons like this is why mumsnet needs to introduce a [twat] emotiocn.

Tiredmumno1 · 22/03/2010 14:03

You see morloth no one on here can say anything on here without everyone taking it in the wrong way

Scardypants · 22/03/2010 14:04

Hold on, HOLD ON.....

...continue

BAFE · 22/03/2010 14:04

Tiredmumno1 I just reported you.

LadyBiscuit · 22/03/2010 14:05

GOML - on another board I'm on, this was recently introduced and is proving v popular :O

Tiredmumno1 · 22/03/2010 14:06

I just got wound up with morning paper saying to the op to sleep in her car with her kids. Real good advice for someone

ShadeofViolet · 22/03/2010 14:08

It might be her only option.

morningpaper · 22/03/2010 14:08

er no the advice was:

  • save some money
  • find a private landlord
  • get her DH's work to act as guarantor
  • find a room with friends or family
  • get family to act as a guarantor

but the OP didn't want to hear that

so

Volvo sleepy-time then

Morloth · 22/03/2010 14:09

I don't know, I manage to get my point across.

You used the word foreigner and the word racist. You must have had a reason for bringing it up in a completely unrelated topic. You presented foreigners taking housing stock as the reason that the OP could not get assistance from the Council as a fact.

Now you are implying that the reason you have been pulled up on it is because we are a bunch of hormonal/bitchy women.