to think people saying ' you obviously don't seem to be happy here'

[southeastastra]

in the sense of 'as you post so many negative comments on this site, you obviously aren't very happy here'

should bog off?

Are you not happy here? [patronising emoticon]

Why should they bog off, in your opinion? I don't recall saying it myself, but I must admit that I roll my eyes when people join and then start telling everybody what they think is wrong with the place. It's just rude.

I would have to disagree. I think that if someone is complaining about every aspect of mumsnet, then pointing out that there are other places out there that might suit them better is not unreasonable.

have told people to "jog on" when they are acting like a fuckwit

but not meant to mean "leave the site"

everyone has as much right to be here as the next person

but if they start flinging insults around, they have to be prepared to get picked up on it

There has been quite a few posts telling us we're doing mumsnet all wrong.
Sometimes it does seem silly that they're here.

okay fine, it was me...but im not feeling repentant right now

You obviously aren't very happy here SEA

grr i typed out a reply what's with this site?!

i don't see what is wrong with questioning things, i wouldn't tell them maybe they would be happier somewhere else! that's so patrionising

wasnt trying to be patronising, forgot to put "this is sarcastic" before post, soz!

was really you curli! just reminded me of occasions where people have said it to me. in rl too, that's probably why it winds me up!

was not! sorry

phew, just thought i better 'fess up anyway

Questioning is fine. Saying mumsnet is shit, I hate x, y, z. Stop doing this, change it to that... which I have seen - is really asking for such a response, don't you think?

it's always gone on though heqet. seen it here all the time.

yes, sea...and the new psosters who try to impose their will don't last very long, I find