Ok DP has not got best memory for bdays etc so did not expect much today and tbh not a big deal imo either.
Yesterday his Sis rang as her babysitter cancelled and they had tkts to a show in London DP'Of course we will take your 2 dc [2.5 yrs and 11 mo] for the night and don't rush back enjoy your day they are fine with us' My bil text him 9am to ask would we take their dd so he can take my sis to lunch to celebrate her first mothers day ans YES . I have 4 dc under 3 yrs to help me celebrate my first mothers day the idiot forgt I am a mother as well and this will be my one and only first mothers day He remembered when he went to shop and v nice lady asked what he was doing to make it special he is now guilt ridden and preopared to give me anything to make up for his lack of thought So thinking hats on ladies what do I want