to be annoyed with DDs friends?

[EccentricaGallumbits]

I know I am. perhaps. just a bit.

It's so hard getting her to go to school it makes it a million times more difficult when friend 1 takes days off when she has a cold or a headache (approximately once a week or more) and i'm mean and makes DD go to school unless she's bleeding or unconscious. and friend 2 seems to take great delight in winding DD up by being vile.

just yet more things to make DD not want to go. again.

oh dear. how old is DD?

Be irriated with her mother for not being stricter with her daughter's attendance.

Yes, it's the parents fault.
I am a hardass about going to school despite mild cold symptoms etc.

grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Time to find new friends for your DD...

Huh? Why is friend 2 a friend if she's vile to your daughter?

Friend 1: YABU blame the parents

Friend 2: well, she's not a friend is she?

How old is DD?

yabu
how do you know it is a headache.
and tbh can't see hwt that has to do with you.

Friend 1 YABU - I wouldn't send a child to a school with a headache-what is she going to learn?And how do you know how ill she is.I think YABU if yopu don't keep your child off when she is ill j
Friend 2 YA not BU