to think that

[emmymama]

since dp is 38 and ds is 8 i should be able to sit on the toilet without sitting in someone elses urine?

Could be worse, it could be on the seat like it is chez cobblers.

I don't think that's unreasonable.

When my ex used to insist on doing something in my house despite me pleading with him not to, I went outside, got in his precious car and then reciprocated. End of argument!

With your ds though, that's more difficult. Witholding of priviledges?

lol thats what i meant, someone thats not dp or ds pees all over the seat... i'm assuming the baby has worked out how to use the loo...

I always say I don't care about -men- boys putting the toilet seat down after use, just so long as they put it UP before weeing.

my dh (39) and ds(10) do this too! Its either on the seat or on the floor and both bloody deny it!

Why cant they wipe it if they leave a mess?