DS1 has nothing to do with any of his fathers family or him EXCEPT his uncle in USA.
He has 2 cousins he has never met, i suppose in a way they are my neice and nephew.
The last 2 days i have been talking to them via facebook which has been lovely!!
DP says its silly they could write etc, but i think its kinda sweet that they and DS1 can keep in touch this way.