to not want my mother, sister and BIL to come and stay

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I don't think you are being horrible at all and I think your sister and BIL are out of order!
It does help if you have someone there to give you a hand but I find a friend is a much better bet as they just make the tea and sort out the kitchen in my experience!

Good luck

Oh HELL on wheels.... Poor you!

Can you just put your foot down and say absolutely don't need/want any help.

Tell em 'Thanks for offering but NO'.... A firm no too, tell them you are prepared to fall out if need be. (It won't get to that, cos they aren't coming over..)

Your sis is totally taking the piss btw...

Moving is stressful enough, last thing you need is an army of spectators....