I'm totally at a loss as to what to do.
My DD (8) was invited on a sleepover with a 6yr old friend. We only know the parents through brief conversations at the the doorstep when picking up/dropping off kids. I have the parents phone number and know their house.
Anyway, the sleepover was arranged and a few hours ago DD went there. About 20 minutes ago I nipped to her friend's house (2 minutes away) to drop off a forgotten toy and wish DD goodnight. Also to thank the parents for having her.
I was greeted by the two girls at the door and when I asked where the parents were I was told "they're not here, they've gone swimming". I asked who was looking after them and was told the elder 14 yr old daughter was in charge.
AIBU to think this is out-of-order irresponsible behaviour when you are entrusted with someone else's child? I'm not even considering the legality of it, just the moral responsibilty. Why invite a child over if you're not prepared to loom after them?
I don't want to cause a scene but am really tempted to fetch DD back home.
I'm going to give it an hour and drive back to see if the car is back in the drive. If it isn't then I will kick off.