to think that my neighbours are being over the top?

[MadameMonkey]

This morning I got a phone cal from the counsel who said they'd had complants about noise levels from our house. Aparently, we offen play 'loud music until the early hours of the morning'. This is not true we had a party for my sons 18th last weekend and it was quite loud but we were only doing Abba karaoke which was a laugh. It wasnt even that loud.

We only have neighbours on one side as the other house is empty so it must be them whove complaned. They are old and quite stuck up. I'm furious with them and this afternoon I told them what I thought about them over the fense and asked them what teh hell there doing. Its not the first time theyve complaned either because weve had complants before about the noise. They said there going to call the police and thats not fair because I only gave back as good as i got.

AIBU?

[expatinscotland]

She was 28 and had a 14-year-old? And been 'given' a 3-bed council house, and then another after criminal behaviour?

Says it all, really.

No wonder there are so many out there who wanted to see all people in this situation not given so much or so many chances.

Having had to live near people like this, it makes you sick to the bottom of your core and ruins your life. It's proven fatal for more than a few.

[elmofan]

gez i thought she was in her 40's just looked at her photo didn't read the article .

[expatinscotland]

yes, she just 'slipped back' into being a ghetto, fishwife criminal.

[elmofan]

it must be horrendous to live beside someone like her ,

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Letting them know that you are going to have a party on a specific date is not a matter of asking their permission, it is about you showing them that you care about their evening/night/early morning being disrupted by your party. It is about you showing some curtesy and giving them a change to be away that weekend.
You are so definately being unreasonable about having a go at them over the fence. That is really not going to make them fell all fussy and warm, and withdraw their complaint.

[scottishmummy]

i think you need a more original style of posting other than reproducing dross twaddle. dont you have any opinions or do you need to source them second hand

[scottishmummy]

you posted on aibu,asking a question and inviting opinion.

on an open forum i can post anywhere wish,expressing any opinion i wish.even if it happens not to concur with you

so dont get all rattle out the pram because i think that reproducing a story from a schlocky rag,is lame.and somewhat lacking

[scottishmummy]

oh goodness me what a tizzy because i dont agree with you

adults can usually converse without resorting cod psychology and poor widdle me scottishmummy pulled my hair

if you peruse mn you will see the modus operandi (esp on aibu) is post and expet response.not neessarily one wished for

but if you seek acolytes and affirmation to your posts maybe you should post elsewhere like pick-me-up-reading-mums-in-agreement.dot.com

[scottishmummy]

oh for goodness sake.all this poor widdle me is really quite unnecessary

if you have lesser person issues and feel strangers are out to get you,then that is your personal issue.clearly is affecting your interpretation of this thread

[ChristianaTheTwelfth]

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[GothDetective]

You can't afford to replace the fence you burnt down but can afford to hire a karaoke machine and drink enough to get pissed. You for example are a twat.

[scottishmummy]

reread your own post "I don't understand why you seem so intent on proving that I'm a lesser person than you?"you raised the lesser person phraseology

do you often think that of strangers

in fact i think any answer i give you will invoke the poor widdle me position

[GothDetective]

Ah, have finished reading the thread and see it was a joke. I really must read the whole thread before posting!

[scottishmummy]

Goth,the post is a troll,she copied it up from a magazine

[ChristianaTheTwelfth]

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[scottishmummy]

i had never heard of pick me up until this thread

it's grim reading,the mix of salacious and down right weirdy

[AllSparksWillBurnOut]

scottishmummy, really would like to work out why you are, well, why you are.

But I can't be arsed.

[scottishmummy]

maybe try again when you can compose a coherent sentence. havent a clue what you are trying to say.but neither do you it seems

[ChristianaTheTwelfth]

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