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my dd is two and I want another baby why?

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shouldishouldinot · 19/01/2010 20:39

Me and dp said no more we have two already but suddenly want another baby but no we are not in the right situation not enough space house wise ,what is wrong with me and has anyone suddenly felt like this, I would not have a baby without my partners consent like never get pregannt on purpose im 35 on depo had bad preganacies and suddenly Im wanting one again help what is wrong with me?.

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GetDownYouWillFall · 19/01/2010 20:47

My DD is also 2, and like you am starting to feel the need for another. Even though we said NO MORE! It's weird isn't it? Like some strange evolutionary pull, urging you to further the cause of the species.
But evolution? We don't have enough bedrooms!

katechristie · 19/01/2010 21:05

Yep, same here, YANBU at all! DD is 9mo and I can't stop thinking about no.3, even though after 2 back-to-back labours I swore no more! I think it's all to do with leaving the baby stage behind and suddenly your "little baby" is a little toddler. For me, we've always wanted 3, but really can't afford a new car to fit 3 car seats, haven't got room in the house etc. but i can't stop thinking of another baby! - and neither of mine are good sleepers, DD still up 3 times a night, am knackered, can't wait for a decent night sleep...

I wonder if, with no.1 you don't know what you're doing, it's all chaos but you get there. No.2 comes along, you know what you're doing, but it's a juggling act. I feel with no.3 it would all be such a breeze - I'd know what I was doing, I'd be used to juggling, easy peasy!!! ha ha, just as well still no return of periods for me yet! what a shock to the system I'd have.

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