To be miffed that I was called a bad mum because....

[MsSpentYoof]

I 'let' my son get jaundice

This is what a 'friend' said to me (after he was trying to tell me the guy I am seeing with cheat on me simply because he isn't him )

This actually happened a few days ago but I am still miffed about it... any of my MN FB friends probably saw this on my profile (he is now deleted, although the thread remains)

I am pretty sure I ANBU because I am pretty sure there was nothing I could do to stop DS being born with Jaundice...?

His reasoning was that I should have 'gone out' more when I was PG, apart from the fact that DS was born in winter so the amount of sun I would have got would have been limited, and I did go out at least once daily until I wasn't even able to make it up the stairs due to really bad SPD.

So AIBU, or is he a fuckwit?

chegirls that made me laugh!
When my midwife asked if I had noticed DS was yellow I said ‘But we’re all yellow!’ I got a very funny look.

My ds developed jaundice after being born 8 weeks prem 31 years ago. I had pre eclampsia too. It really isnt your fault and he s a fuckwit to say so

Something to do with them not being 'gripped' as they're pushed out?
DS was "gripped" for 80 minutes. Still got jaundice.

(His jaundice was also missed because "not being rude, but he just has your skin tone". I am not fucking fluorescent! - amazed at how often this apparently happens)

Your friend is a fucking fuckwit