To ne annoyed that Exw sent pizza to dss's to OUR HOUSE??

[AnnaBonsoir]

We were all relaxing on the sofa, the boys winding down after a nice salad for dinner.
Next thing, doorbell rings.

DP goes to the door, where he is met by a pizza delivery boy, with 2 HUGE pizzas and some garlic bread, AND coleslaw!!

Apparently, exW had been worried that the boys would go hungry at our house, so she has started sending food out to them.

This is a first, even for her. I am gobsmacked and Dp says he is visiting our lawyer at the earliest opportunity.

or perhaps a chinese take-away ? special fried rice with bar-b-que sauce and prawn and ribs ...... oh god i could do some ribs right now! @ all the mnetters who are eating ribs right now!

I never post unless I mean it, Diva. Have you read what she has to say about the exW?

YOU. EAT. BREAD. AFTER. LUNCH.???

i bet the ex-wife is gorgeous,and its thats fulling the bitchyness.

suspect anna doesn't know arse from elbow or fact from fiction

well put it this way if skinny is soooo attractive , why do so many women have boob jobs to make themselves curvier?
(i got mine for free, by eating proper food) .

Actually, in France they tend to have boob jobs to reduce their proportions...considered very very vulgar to have normal large breasts...

ooh do they ?
can we do a whipround and send jordan over to france ?

You know what, Bonsoir always gives me good advice....bluntly....I like that.

I will let you girls in on a little secret here - yes, I like to be in control, and normally am.
However, I do feel that exW sending food over for the boys is undermining my position to the point that, quite frankly, I am worried...and it is Friday tomorrow - what will come a knocking on our door. Perish the thought of kebabs, Chinese...or worse...burgers.

What shall I do?

A big butt plug probably if it's Friday

lol @ hobbgoblins burger butt plug!
bet theres someone somewhere whos tried that .

Anna, send the delivery driver away.... if you think this is being done maliciously, then refuse to accept the delivery... especially if the food being sent isn't what you would order yourself.

If she's crossing your borders, it's only cos you are letting her.

Draw a line in your household, it's your right to do so.

Are Bonsoir and AnnaBonsoir the same person? I can't work out if this is someone taking the mickey out of Bonsoir or Bonsoir taking the mickey out of herself or something else entirely?

Anyway I really want pizza now, so whoever you are YABU purely for that

I don't much care for pizza.

Fimble - AnnaBonsoir, the op of this thread, is a character adopted by a naughty mumsnetter and this thread has been started to take the mickey out of the real BonsoirAnna who had a fairly controversial thread running yesterday (it had Miami in the title if you want to look for it).

The real BonsoirAnna has recently shortened her name to just Bonsoir - and she has appeared on this thread too.

Hth.

I would tell the next delivery driver to feck right off, if I were you Anna.

You will then have ample opportunity to "study" how a member of the hoi-polloi reacts to this particular type of contraversial communication method.

If you are lucky you will get about 5 seconds to make a note for your sad jottings Thesis before the doner kebab gets rammed up your jacksi!

Bon chance!

Thanks bibbitybobbity, I saw the Miami thread I just wasn't sure which was the 'real' Bonsoir so I couldn't work out what was going on. Merci beaucoup!

imo,anna is harmless bored housewife,grandiose posts and prone to hyperbole but overall innocuous.as frankly her posts had such a cartoon character quality id be amazed anyone believed her on screen alter ego.think the on screen persona is a diversion from other issues

These 'AAnna threads' have been difficult reading for me...

I also live in Paris. Paris is a small city... mine and bonsoir's paths do cross in rl.

Really - She is a very nice woman with a charming family who she cares deeply about, she is free thinking, which I value in people, a beacon of knowledge on anything you might need in Paris or in the shops (she loves city life and shopping), but mostly I find her to be very very human. Basically - Bonsoir is kind, confident and a true lover of life!

On mn I find her posting style fun, knowing (in that she 'plays the game' or breaks the rules with true understanding) and she is to the point - but seriously it is an honest reflection of herself!

In short - This really is a human being and fellow Mother you are all talking about and frankly in some cases ganging up against like school girls!

I am shocked to have just discovered that bonsoir was being treated so badly... I am, however, VERY glad that she seemed to have risen above the really nasty bits! Well done Bonsoir ? I am sooooo very very of your confidence levels!

"AAnna" - - why oh why do I keep thinking it is a good idea to mn with a puppy and toddler hopping up and down on my lap????

teafortwo,anna has been verbose on mn certainly not bullied or cowed.appears she actively seeks contention - she chose such a specific posting style.no one compels her to utilise such style.her consistency and chosen topics (usually her fab life and slovenly fat ex-wife posts indicate she is in her chosen comfort range)

no one compels anna to post in such a manner

teafortwo, Anna actually admitted that she posts like she does to watch our "reactions". She finds it fascinating to study us apparently. Like we are amoebas or something. It is highly patronising.

She DOESN'T care what our opinion of her is, because we are not worthy enough to have one really.

can someone please link to the other thread? ta

LOL at this one! OP who are you ?

Anna YABU salad! give me the pizza any day thats not a proper dinner for kids imo, fine on the side with something, but on its own