DP is tired, because he goes to bed to late, i am tired, because i go to bed too late. DP is very hands on with DD and she IS very demanding of him. But, two things - DP has a big job to price up and he is procrastinating. Also, if DP sleeps now he will be wide awake at midnight and still not going to bed early - despite the fact that he will need to be up early tomorrow for work (assuming he is going due to the weather - he is self employed).
DP has irritated me a little over the holiday by disappearing off to bed during the day but to be absolutely fair, he gets up with DD every morning and leaves me in bed - so im not criticising him.
But i did wake him up now - he slipped off upstairs claiming to need a wee - half hour later i went up and he is snoring on the bed. He wants me to do work stuff with him later and I am tired and dont want to be starting stuff at 11pm because if my mind is active too late i wont get to sleep - im struggling to get to sleep lately - just got into a routine of going to bed to late.
He is in a foul mood and said, "if i could have just had half an hour i would have been ok" "don't be a grumpy arsehole" was my reply - i actually thought i was doing him a favour I am itching to get the house tidy after the xmas holiday i was in the middle of cleaning when he roped me into playing a board game with DD, i dont mind but i was actually walking about the house recycling bin in hand - he has washed up twice since he finished work the week before xmas! I don't mind, he does the majority of the work with DD.