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Thank you - verbal or letter/card?

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tatt · 04/01/2010 16:59

I know similar questions have been asked before but this is slightly unusual. One of my children attends a sports club also attended by adults. One couple bought them 2 Christmas gifts "because we thought of you when we saw them". The gifts are extremely well chosen, I wish their relatives took such care. There is no tradition of giving each other gifts other than a "secret santa" type where you buy a present suitable for anyone so it was simply an act of kindness.

I feel that this merits either a thank you letter or at least a card rather than simple thnaks, especially from a not very verbal teenager.

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BoysAreLikeDogs · 04/01/2010 17:04

yy letter or card

the givers sound lovely and generous

BoysAreLikeDogs · 04/01/2010 17:05

and worth cultivating

Jamieandhismagictorch · 04/01/2010 17:10

yes, I agree a letter is appropriate

pointydig · 04/01/2010 17:11

a card would be easier for a not very verbal teenager, no?

Coldhands · 04/01/2010 19:38

Yes, a card seems like a nice gesture after what they did.

Lapsedrunner · 04/01/2010 19:39

I agree, a card would be ideal.

lovechoc · 04/01/2010 19:42

IMO just say thanks, it's a bit more personal than a piece of paper with writing on it.

LittleSilver · 04/01/2010 20:01

Card/letter, verbal thanks would be just rude after that effort.

cat64 · 04/01/2010 20:09

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tatt · 04/01/2010 20:42

thank you. My teenager didn't quite agree but has been persuaded to go for the card, with an appropriate hand written message

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Bathsheba · 04/01/2010 20:50

Definatlely a card - people get so little personal mail these days like letters and things and everyone I know really appreciates the time and effort to do a card..

tatt · 05/01/2010 20:50

thanks - I was able to show the stroppy teen its not only their mother who thinks cards are good

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