My selfish partner went to pub last night for a few drinks

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we have young kids so he said he would not be late,came in at 12.00 peed as a fa**, Im really angry at him for being selfish and forgetting that he should put us all first as I put our kids to bed and did the santa thing with our 4 year old , which we should be doing,I feel like making him suffer but dont want to ruin christmas what do i do?

Take the moral high ground. Ignore and make it a lovely day for your children.

Then tomorrow tell him exactly what you think if him.

Really is it that big a deal? It's Xmas don't waste time arguing
next year get in early and go out before he does
and if he's hungover get the kids to make loads of noise

Thanks guys I will ignore this and have a word tomorrow, after all its christmas and its for the children, hope he has a hangover Im sending the kids in a minute with drums and keyboard then im going to have them sing ho ho ho.