To think that planning a week in Thailand without discussing it with your OH..........

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is considerably different to planning a night out without discussing it with them first???

There is a definite difference.

Would the week away be for both though?

Yes. It is very different.

Yes, there are lady-boys in Thailand

well it's with martial arts friend and his father (who lives out there).

And no it's just for him - and apparently he only needs to pay for flights (as they would be staying with friends father) and it wouldn't be coming out of our current budget.

How long did it take you stop laughing?

Well, how very jolly for him. I would be very jealous and a bit put out to have not been invited/consulted. Have you got children ?

ermm well I didn't laugh - I lost it

actuall BF just happened to call (about something totally different) and I told her the full story (which is FAAAAAAAAAAAAAR to long to type out here) and she also agrees with me (she's the sort of friend who does tell me when I've been unreasonable or irrational without hesitation).

Right - thank you - I thought as much - I shall strop contentedly tonight then