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To be pissed of with DP an have a bloody sulk!!

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ijustwanttoaskaquestion · 11/12/2009 17:57

I DON'T WANT TO COOK TONIGHT!!!

i feel tired and i just don't feel like cooking - DP been off work today, but i dont see him offering to cook anything!!

I have already hinted that i would like fish and chips, i really quite fancy fish and chips!

So he has been snoring his head off on the sofa i said - what are we going to do about dinner then??

His reply? Well what are you cooking?? THEN persuades DD that she wants a pizza, there is one in the fridge so she wants that - which means i can't expect F&C and will have to cook something for his vegetarian fecking lordship - then he had the fucking audacity to ask me to make him a cup of tea today.

Now dont get me wrong, DP works hard and im actually quite lazy and he does loads around the house - but i DONT WANT TO COOK TONIGHT!! and i WANT fish and chips!!!

I can't drive and the local chippy is shut so i cant get it myself either! Now will have to cobble together something for me and DP and there is hardly anything that i can make a decent meal with so he will turn his sodding nose up at whatever i cook anyway

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QOD · 11/12/2009 17:58

say you arent hungry - then sneak a snack while he snores - then when he makes himself something - get some toast!

ijustwanttoaskaquestion · 11/12/2009 17:58

Also, he has been home late every night this week, not his fault, work, but this means i have had to cook two sodding meals each night this week as nothing i had in to cook would have survived reheating and been edible

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ijustwanttoaskaquestion · 11/12/2009 18:00

QOD, he wont make himself anything though - ive already made him a sodding sandwich already today, when i was wanting to rush to get the flooor cleaned - he was actually doing some DIY but i still stopped what i was doing to make HIM a sarnie!

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Tizzyjacko · 11/12/2009 18:01

If he is like my DH hinting won't work. Just ask him if you would (please) go and get some fish and chips because you really want them.

For another thread...do men get hints?

plumpud · 11/12/2009 18:02

feed dd pizza .. ask dh to go get F&C for both of you on the premise of not much in the house and tis a friday night

nannynobnobs · 11/12/2009 19:44

Don't hint... TELL his Lordship!
"I've been cooking two meals a day all week, I don't want to cook again and there's bugger all in, will you go out for fish and chips please?"
There.

pooexplosionsonthedustyroad · 11/12/2009 19:58

I don't get it. You hint about what you want, you cook something for your dd you didn't want to, and will then cook something for your H that you don't want to, after you made him sandwiches when you didn't want to?

Have you heard of NO? Its not hard. You say, No, I won't be making dinner, I want fish and chips.

ijustwanttoaskaquestion · 11/12/2009 20:23

oh dont worry poo, i know perfectly well how to say no - although i am rather too fond of expecting DP to ready my mind

To be fair, i did have a joke sulk - had such a nice day with him today that i didnt want to ruin it, and he offered to go get me F&C, albeit half heartedly

Anyway, i got involved in playing lego with DD - and we had a lovely couple of hours making a holiday home complete with roundabout - which was lovely because she usually favours DP alot over me, he went off to bed for an hour because his knees are hurting him (poor lamb). As a consequence, all i have had is two bits of pizza, but he has had nothing - so he will be hungy hungry - so i am thinking that the price has just risen

I dont want F&C any more, i want indian

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QOD · 12/12/2009 08:49

LOL - did you get Indian?

ijustwanttoaskaquestion · 12/12/2009 17:32

QOD - no i didn't!! although he did offer, i just couldn't decide what i wanted and was too tired - i think he planned on taking me out tonight but didnt factor in the X factor final!!

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