to think that answering" what business is it of yours" is NOT the way

[DanDruff]

to approach an AIBU thread, which by its bery nature is judgemental in its style

I have to say I love you name

I don't see why not. I hate all those 'I judged another mum for X' type threads. 'Mind your own business' is my stock response, in fact. Or 'get a life' .

oh mrs M
you diappoint me,
you start a thread and someone says "its none of your busines"

well on THAT basis mn woudl collapse!

Yanbu. AIBU has a terrible reputation but it has the potential to be funny. And often a thread is trundling along in a lighthearted way and then OutragedOfTunBridgeWells comes ranting along. People don't seem to get that you are sometimes asking in a tongue in cheek sort of way. People often take everything literally and way too seriously. We need a [btw I'm being IRONIC emoticon].

yaby
not only because you ingnored me, but cos you did a thread about a thread

Oh I like threads about threads.

I also very much like "yaby". Might adopt that myself.

yaby?
ignor YOU twoey? sorry!

Never post on AIBU unless you have a thick skin!

I think that is's good to get several point of view no matter how harsh the reponse, makes you think more, you can get pissed off and some comments are just nasty, but you are warned!

We could do with a topic thread titled

' I really just want to have a moan and get this all off my chest and for you all to say there there it will get better before I linch DH / kids/neighbours/ best friend etc etc '

alot of the time AIBU is just the above and the usual sympathy comes out in abundance .