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my partner and i have fallen out over his bf

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comfortandlenor · 24/11/2009 21:52

his friends friend told me about a night out which his girlfriend I thought gf knew about thing is bf fell out with a close friend of ours ,im being blamed,really upset as i didnt know.
Feel like saying you deserve all of each other for lying and what other lies have you all tried to cover up aibu.thinking of leaving and saying do i need this.

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AmazingBouncingFerret · 25/11/2009 15:30

Im not bothered whether Paul is fit or a twunt, I want a poo at his house though...

Monty100 · 25/11/2009 15:35

Thanks Honey I'll look forward to it.

OP's DP's BF told him that a friend of a friend went out with friend's wife, OP's DP told her about it and then they were all going out for a drink and a further friend and his DW took the moral high ground and refused to join them because they'd heard about the liaison with friend and other friend's dw. OP told BF's other friend's DW why the further friend and DW weren't joining them and friend confronted OP's DP and now DP is not talking to her.

Is that it?

Monty100 · 25/11/2009 15:36

Amazing - you beat me to it. pmsl

Monty100 · 25/11/2009 15:39

That's all wrong isn't it.

Paul is the person with the nice air freshner in his bog. He might still be a twunt though.

He is OP's DP's friend.

Honeypeckle · 25/11/2009 15:51

TC Bedford here..

Still drinking and i'm still confused..

LeQueen · 25/11/2009 16:01

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Honeypeckle · 25/11/2009 17:20

Ohhh Absinthe..hardcore LeQueen I like it!

Much better thanks...although things are a little fuzzy now

Comfort is DH talking to you yet?

LeQueen · 25/11/2009 17:29

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Honeypeckle · 25/11/2009 17:32

Ha ha brilliant! I'll be right over..

TeamEdward · 25/11/2009 17:34

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GinSlinger · 25/11/2009 17:34

this thread has made me really happy - they should dry it, bottle it and then sell it as a therapeutic remedy.

TotallyAndUtterlyPaninied · 25/11/2009 18:49

ViktoriaMac- Aahh your mum is Mavis? Yes, she is involved, sorry to break that news. Perhaps everyone should fall out with me for telling the truth

ViktoriaMac · 25/11/2009 19:02

Oh fuck it, I don't care. Is Durk fit coz I could do with a fit step-dad, or is he (shcok horror) my REAL dad???? In that case I don't care if he's fit or not!
My mum though, she's a sket!

LeQueen · 25/11/2009 19:02

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TotallyAndUtterlyPaninied · 25/11/2009 19:06

He is your fit step-dad who you are thinking of having an affair with and keeping it a secret but you may get caught by a friend who will tell your mum and you will all fall out with that friend for being so godamn nosey! I'm so glad someone got me this crystal ball for my birthday

PerArduaAdNauseum · 25/11/2009 19:18

Can't believe I just read through the whole thing. Who's for champagne-tequila slammers while we wait to see if Comfort's coming back?

ShinyAndNew · 25/11/2009 19:32

Am the only who hasn't worked it out yet?

Though, methinks it was probably all Pauls fault. I never did him like him. He has a funny look about him.

LeQueen · 25/11/2009 19:37

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Honeypeckle · 25/11/2009 19:37

Champagne-tequila slammers...bring it on!
Not sure if it tops the Absinthe with lighter fuel tho..that's the buzz you're looking for

ShinyAndNew · 25/11/2009 19:38

OOh yes please.

LeQueen · 25/11/2009 19:42

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Monty100 · 25/11/2009 19:46

Right where's that drink?

OP's a bit quiet isn't she???

TeamEdward · 25/11/2009 19:46

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