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to think that LOL is irritatingly overused

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ParanoidAtAllTimes · 24/11/2009 10:24

Surely it is only relevant when something actually makes you laugh out loud? I've noticed on facebook that people seem to punctuate their sentences with lol, e.g. 'went into town today but it was raining lol. Was well busy so I came home lol. Now kids are in bed and I have a headache so I'm getting an early night lol'

I visulise these people having conversations peppered with 'Lol'

My 1st AIBU- I thought I'd start small

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Longtalljosie · 25/11/2009 08:35

Someone who was actually complimenting us on our webchat with David Cameron said that the webchat contained "several lollivers". This was a new one on me but it was a compliment so I decided it was a good thing.

But generally of course YANBU. I have a friend who's always emailing me with "lol lol lol" attached to things which aren't remotely laugh-worthy. Agree with an earlier poster, much as I love her it makes her sound deranged...

MmeLindt · 25/11/2009 08:45

I do use it, but at the start of a sentence to denote that I found something very funny. Never use it at the end of sentences lol.

I received a letter from my lovely SIL last year and she had lots of lol and txt speak in her letter. Oh, dear.

wukter · 25/11/2009 09:04

txt spk ltr, omg, MmeLindt! xxx

cariboo · 25/11/2009 09:13

Since the written word (esp at the rate of chat, text, etc) can be misinterpreted through lack of tone, smileys & lols are a necessary evil.

SkipToMyLou · 25/11/2009 09:41

Some of us NEED to be fluent in txt spk otherwise we'd have no bloody idea what our DC were up to! Show a little mercy if it spills over into our own vocabulary, we're only human!

Tidey · 25/11/2009 13:14

What's even worse than all the lolling is that the other day I was having a conversation and didn't know what to say/had no comment to make, so I actually said 'biscuit'. I really must stop MNing so much.

Pikelit · 25/11/2009 13:17

My children never use txt spk. It's a matter of honour. My friend, who has no children, sends me messages that make fuckall sense and which I have been known to return marked "please send in a comprehensible format". I wouldn't mind if it wasn't that she's a librarian and majorly pedantic about everything else.

Actually, I lie. I object to txt almost more than I abhor 'lol'.

mummypies · 25/11/2009 13:49

I prefer to PMSL than LOL but each to their own!!

LeQueen · 25/11/2009 13:54

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CJCregg · 25/11/2009 13:57

YANBU. It's not a fucking punctuation mark.

CJCregg · 25/11/2009 13:58

LeQueen, me too! And the funny thing is, I know people get really irritated by my long, exquisitely-constructed texts ...

southeastastra · 25/11/2009 14:01

you bunch of miseries

lol

SerenityNowAKABleh · 25/11/2009 14:05

YANBU. I hate it when people do that. Even my lovely SIL does it and it does my head in. This overuse means that you can't use it in situations when you have genuinely loled, as then you worry people will think you're daft.

I also always fully punctuate sentences and use full words when writing texts. Unless VERY short on space.

CJCregg · 25/11/2009 14:06

And another thing - PMSL is technically incorrect, as My and Self aren't two words in this context.

I know, I know, I'm going now.

Pikelit · 25/11/2009 14:07

I like acronyms that aren't. FUCKWIT, for example.

mrsruffallo · 25/11/2009 14:07

Iin real life I only laugh out loud when I an nervous so all this use of LOL unsettles me a bit

VengefulKitty · 25/11/2009 14:09

I use lol, pmsl, rofl, lmao and emoticons.

I may not actually be doing these, but it highlights that I find something amusing.

I hate text speak. I can decipher it, but cannot compose it myself.

It's just the current way of expressing ourselves. Keep up with the times! lol

Pikelit · 25/11/2009 14:16

Keep up with the farkin' times?
Forsooth, if this means speaking in Electric English then I'm happy to be a reactionary.
Oddsboddikins!

VengefulKitty · 25/11/2009 14:20

Hahaha!! (Oh, actually, that is my most overused)

CJCregg · 25/11/2009 14:26

Quite right, Pikelit.

Verily, I did slap my thigh in merriment.

LeQueen · 25/11/2009 14:37

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CJCregg · 25/11/2009 16:05

Indeed, madam, my stays were stretched almost to bursting point.

ParanoidAtAllTimes · 25/11/2009 16:07

LeQueen, I think lol actually sums up my reaction to that post quite succinctly!

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SkipToMyLou · 25/11/2009 16:56

WTF? U ppl r srsly lala, lol!