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to snigger that the woman my H went off with, who he is still with is having an affair with another man?

46 replies

whoingodsnameami · 18/11/2009 23:31

And everyone seems to know but him?

I wonder if he is gonna like his own medicine

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TheCrackFox · 18/11/2009 23:34

Don't you just love Karma.

whoingodsnameami · 18/11/2009 23:36

Oh yes

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Monty100 · 18/11/2009 23:39

Poetic justice.

Cheappinkfizz · 18/11/2009 23:46

No need for revenge when karma does your work for you

scottishmummy · 18/11/2009 23:52

well they are all dirty shaggers.so aye have a wry smile

Glitterknickaz · 18/11/2009 23:56

Karma is a wonderful thing indeed.

scottishmummy · 18/11/2009 23:57

what goes around comes around

VengefulSinner · 18/11/2009 23:59

Hahaha! Perfect justice well and truly served

perfectstorm · 19/11/2009 00:09

YANBU at all. This can be put neatly in the What Goes Around, Comes Around file, in the Poetic Justice section.

Congrats!

ObsidianBlackbirdMcNight · 19/11/2009 07:40

I can't see how a normal, faithful relationship can result from an affair. Both parties have behaved badly - and when they behave badly again it shouldn't be a bloody surprise!

Fnar fnar

bellissima · 19/11/2009 07:43

YANBU. enjoy!

StealthPolarBear · 19/11/2009 07:45

yaNbu!!

kreecherlivesupstairs · 19/11/2009 08:24

Why would you need to ask if YABU, you know the answer.
Are you a tiny bit tempted to give him the good news about his floozycurrent partner?

whoingodsnameami · 19/11/2009 11:24

kree, nah, not at all, I am just gonna sit back and wait for and enjoy the fireworks ( if he finds out) then I shall tell him I knew, I will even surprise him by confirming the other blokes name, apparently he is a mutual friend to them both, double agony for him, what a tragedy

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NotAnotherNewNappy · 19/11/2009 12:02

YANBU - serves the dirty dog right.

roulade · 19/11/2009 12:22

Mua ha ha ha ha ha!!!!

potplant · 19/11/2009 12:25

It is of course, very childish but snigger away!!! Serves him right.

thisxgirl · 19/11/2009 12:34

Oh, he's a human being who made a mistake and it isn't healthy to rejoice in other's misfortunes, even if they deserve it...NOT! YANBU, I would be doing a merry dance and would be feeling a sense of closure!

Iklboo · 19/11/2009 12:39

Oh the poor thing

posieparker · 19/11/2009 12:41

Can't you accidentally tell him!!

Brilliant.

norksinmywaistband · 19/11/2009 12:42

you know YANBU
I would LOVE this tho happen to my soon to be ExH and his floosy

AbricotsSecs · 19/11/2009 12:44

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wannaBe · 19/11/2009 12:52

oh but he has a right to know.

I would be inclined to say something like

"so is it true you and x are splitting? no? Oh sorry, I guess I thought that you would given the affair with y."

babbi · 19/11/2009 13:01

Nope not unreasonable at all !!! Enjoy !!

AnyFucker · 19/11/2009 15:20

oh, bloody marvellous

I love it when life comes and bites nasty people on the ass