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to think that the 11plus forum is the scariest forum in the world!

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stillenacht · 17/11/2009 22:37

anyone agree??

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RugbyDidntLikeMyKid · 27/03/2010 22:55

I don't think 11+ is secret enough although every one is so sickly and nice. At least on here we can see what bitches everyone is and how low they are prepared to go. Makes me feel good that I'm not the only low life who has never left the playground! No wonder my kid never passed the 11+ with her mum's simple mind!

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RugbyDidntLikeMyKid · 27/03/2010 23:11

Of course they have big ego's have you not heard them all kissing each others ass's? Still I'm not a bitter mum who's done a crap job with her kid so I have to slag others off.

RugbyDidntLikeMyKid · 27/03/2010 23:22

I meant it's not secret enough. I know more about some members than their partners probably do.

Not a low life for my kid failing to get into the school of our choice. Anyway where would I be without my bitching and cyber stalking? Thankfully CrapMumCrapKidCrapLife keeps me on track!

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RugbyDidntLikeMyKid · 27/03/2010 23:34

Air kisses always welcome. Mwah x

CMCKCL, yeh that's a local issue but how did you know. Spooky!

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Cretaceous · 28/03/2010 10:35

Oops, I've been tempted back to reply to LeQueen.

"If your child is genuinely academic, all they should need are a few past papers with which to familiarise themselves with the actual mechanics of the 11+ paper."

In my experience, this isn't true at all. It might be in your area, but it's not true in mine, sadly, where there are only superselectives. I was shocked to discover that even the brightest children have been tutored these days, even though few admit it. Perhaps it's the effect of the credit crunch.

Also, it depends on your DC's school. Mine hadn't actually covered all of the maths needed to for the exam, they don't do anything like verbal reasoning at school, and grammar doesn't seem to be taught at all. Luckily I realised the gaps a few months before the exam, as I'd been a pretty hands off parent who hadn't even bothered checking they knew their times tables.

Thirdly, in some areas, if you have an exceptionally bright child, a few past papers will be enough. But what about for a child who is borderline? They may do well at grammar school. However, they will not get in without a helping hand.

I don't advocate two years of intensive tutoring. But I do think it is misleading to suggest that all they need is a few past papers. It depends so much on their current school, the area and which exams are used to select the children.

PS Congratulations Learner Driver No More! No idea what all that cloak and dagger stuff is or means though

Dumfounded · 28/03/2010 11:58

To whom it may concern,
I think that if you have a problem with people/a person on the 11 plus forum you should have the decency to tell them rather than this cloak and dagger reference to them through user names and what amounts to 'cyber stalking' (quoted from this forum).

Others may not know what you are doing but you do. I hope you sleep well at night. Just what has this person done to you that you should even want to do this? Have the guts to come out of the shadows and speak to/contact this person.

Maybe they have upset you in some way? I use the other forum and, generally, the others on it are decent people trying to help their kids. Why spoil it?

Have some gumption.

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Cretaceous · 28/03/2010 15:36

LeQueen, put like that then I guess we are in agreement

But then how do you define intensive tutoring? I say my DC did loads of work to pass the exam. Yet he didn't even do all the past papers the school sells. It just seemed like loads of work to me, as I'm by nature lazy

I know others who say their DC barely did anything, yet they've done every test paper available in the entire universe - twice.

Neverchuckanokiaatthepm · 28/03/2010 16:13

BAN THE 11 PLUS ISAY

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