To be upset my own father (who I haven't seen in 2 years) is on Facebook and has not added me as a friend?

[8oreighty]

All this time I've been sending him pictures of the kids, sending links to facebook, where I always put them. So he knows I'm on there. Then find he is too - with loads of friends.

He's a professor in the states...I haven't seen him in over 2 years...I've been living here for 12 years and he's only been to visit once, when the twins were born, oh and another time when he stopped by on a trip through "Eurpe" with my stepmonster, and he did come to my wedding. But still haven't seen him in 2 years, and no plans to visit or see his grandkids.

Can't you go and visit him?

Have you invited him to be a friend? If not you should try and see what happens....he might just think you would have asked him if you'd wanted to.

Hve you added him as a freind and he's ignored you?

Just added him, he's been on it for a while because he has loads of friends. I have been to visit him. It costs a fcking fortune for us all to go out there...4 seats on a plane...and last time I went it was really difficult and expensive. They don't cook so we had to go out for all of our meals, with 2 year old twins...not fun. I made up my mind that he can come visit us. He's never seen our house.