Have namechanged (just in case anyone in RL has matched me). Not a troll.
1 beautiful DS (1.7). Long history of miscarriages and ectopics.
We are not trying to conceive at the moment - wanted a break from the heartache - but... we were a bit cavalier with contraception (we use the rhythm method - v reliable for us as I know exactly when ovulation is, and we had sex on the very last day of my fertile window) this month.
I've known that I'm pregnant for over a week (just because I am very good at recognising when I am up the duff, even before my period is due - due to lots of experience, sadly) but have not let on to DH.
Period was due on Friday and as I am very regular, DH has asked every day since if it's arrived, but I have just acted unconcerned and said that it's on it's way as I feel very pre-menstrual and it's just being a bit tardy.
Took a test today and it has confirmed that I am pregnant.
Obviously a baby would be welcome news. But another long drawn-out unsucessful pregancy is very much not welcome. It's always so stressful and awful for us both.
Would it be very unreasonable of me not to tell DH and pretend that my period has arrived, to spare him the worry? Also, I just would prefer to deal with it quietly on my own.
Obviously, if it's ectopic or similar then that will be apparent quite quickly (will have 6 week trans-vaginal scan at EPU) and I'll have to tell him, but if it's just a 'normal' straightforward MC, there's no need for him to know. I just think it will be easier for both him and for me.
Would appreciate your thoughts.