Last night I went to a dance class, for the first time since dd was born, she's 8 months, the boys are 6 and 2. It's been hard to get out on my own before bedtime until recently, she's taking a bottle much better these days. All the kids went to bed fine.
After my class I did the food shopping, it was after 10 by the time I got home. No sign of dh, I thought he must be asleep, but the lights were on downstairs etc.
So I went in and out to the car at least 4 times bringing in all the food, putting it away, and then once that was done, went online for maybe 5 minutes. Then I thought I heard the toilet flushing.
I went up to get my pyjamas (we've been sleeping separately so I can get the baby in the night, separate topic there!) and say goodnight to dh. He was in bed but obviously not asleep as he'd just been to the bathroom!
I was a little annoyed that he was up and could hear me put shopping away and didn't come down to help me and ask about my evening.
This morning I told him so and he got cross, saying he was tired and if I wanted him to help, why didn't I come up and get him. I think he was being selfish and rude, (but didn't say exactly that!).
Not a big deal really, just wanted to vent!