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to not give a birthday card?

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ilovemy2babies · 23/10/2009 18:59

Am i being unreasonable to not give someone i work with a birthday card?

Its someones birthday in work tomorrow and last year i gave her a card and a present as we were good friends back then. However since then ive had a lot of problems with this so called friend she basically made my life in work hell.

Although im friendly to her in work just because i have to be but i dont want to be i cant stand her.

I dont give cards to any of the other staff i work with so i dont see why i should with her. Shes not a friend anymore shes just a work collegue.

am i being unreasonable?

OP posts:
Tortington · 23/10/2009 19:00

if its not something that one generally does in the office i don't think you abu

Hassled · 23/10/2009 19:00

I don't see why it's an issue. If you don't want to, then don't.

busybutterfly · 24/10/2009 12:59

YANBU. Friendships change. Don't feel bad about it!

ilovemy2babies · 24/10/2009 20:22

What does YANBU stand mean?

OP posts:
AnyGhoulKno · 24/10/2009 20:36

you are not being unreasonable (YANBU)

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