to not want to be dragged to another event in DHs family ...

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when DH doesn't even know WHOs event it is?!

This time its a christening, DHs mum only asked us yesterday if we could go,

I ask DH who's it is and its some kid cannot tell me the name but his dad might be his cousin 'xxxx'

So will be frigging bus trip with all the kids and got no money for drinks or present.

And DS1 has frig all to wear as hes had a major growth spurt.

Don't go.

dont go.make a card to 'kid'

YANBU - I wouldn't even do card! If it's any consolation, the parents & child being christened won't notice/care if you are there