Well after a day of him texting me and me replying pretty harshly but politely iykwim?
his GIRLFRIEND has sent this message to ds1's old account which I actually have to say I admire her honesty!!!
K.
I cant answer your question about what went on with you and your Dad when you were seven, I was not in your Dad's life at that time, however he has told me his feelings on this matter, it hurt him a great deal to cut ties with you, he found it hard to come to a happy comprimise with your Mum, he did not feel strong enough to cope in this situation, I know it is hard to understand but I can assure you that being a parent is the hardest thing in the world, it does not come naturally to everybody, only now with my support is he able to feel strong enouigh to cope and even enjoy becoming a good and strong parent and the wonderful things that children bring into your life, he has told me many times that he could have done more and should have, but I believe it is better late than never.
I hope this answers at least a small part of your thoughts, if there is anything else I can help you with please do not hesitaate to contact me at any time, also please show your Mum this as I dont want her to feel as though she is not included in this.
I will keep calling him your Dad as this is what he is, my children lost their Dad, unfortunately he died 11 years ago, just because they no longer see him and D , my son who you met does not remember him, he was only 1 when he died, well he is still their Dad and always will be. This is my opinion and I understand if you do not agree.
Anyway about you going out to Thorpe Park, talk it over with your Mum and let your Dad know as soon as possible before it closes.
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Well what do you all think???