to be livid that I am being made to feel guilty by dh

[punchandjudy]

because I have kept him awake last night while I was throwing up with a stomach bug???

He has gone on and on about it and right now I am ready to scream.

ARGHHHHH

He can't make you feel guilty.
Ignore him or simply say 'I am sorry you feel like that' and then turn away.

Do not feel guilty, what did he do to help you while you were sick, hold yuor hair back? Bring you some water? He should feel guilty if not!

Hopefully he'll catch the bug. When he does, and feels like shit, tell him to go and sleep on the sofa!

I think I'd be all childish and say something like "I am so terribly sorry that my being ill was such an inconvinence to you. I shall of course, never be so inconsiderate as to be ill again. Please accept my humble apologies for my disgusting behaviour. I hope you can forgive me"

etc etc.

cos I'd go on and on and on like that until he was BEGGING me to stop!!

Moondog - yes that is what I should have said and done..however, had a row and come on here in a huff.

And yes..I'm hoping he'll catch it too..the fecker.

I moan at dh for snoring and keeping me away but it's always me who has to resort to the sofa and never him.