I must spend far too long on here because I get far too annoyed at people's wrong dodgy advice and opinions. I prefer it on MN where the people who are wrong misguided get shouted down.
(For example, you post about your tosser DH/P on here and people will support you to leave and not just expect you to spend the rest of your life miserable "for the sake of the kids" (who are probably also miserable). You admit that you occasionally co-sleep in RL and everyone makes exclamations of doom and mutters about spoilt babies and cot death.)
But I'm also sad about MN being a bit of a safe bubble because it means no matter what good support you get on here as soon as you go back to the real world it seems ridiculous that anybody would agree.