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So does anyone else find the term 'artificial feeding' in relation to the use of formula milk a bit irritating?

416 replies

bangandthedirtisgone · 15/09/2009 19:22

Or is it just me?

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2shoescarriedapumpkin · 15/09/2009 22:10

yanbu can't understand all this them and us stuff with mums.
at the end of the day, when your PFB is grown up they won't give a shit how you fed them.

jellybeans · 15/09/2009 22:10

YABU doesn't bother me, it is artificial.

sabire · 15/09/2009 22:15

YABU - but the term suggests a certain register, which wouldn't be appropriate in all situations.

My real bugbear is with the term 'breastfeeding', which I really dislike, although I haven't managed to articulate to myself exactly why.

I prefer to say 'I'm feeding my baby on my own milk'.

23balloons · 15/09/2009 22:17

YANBU IMO I would imagine it is used by smug breastfeeders.

pooexplosions · 15/09/2009 22:17

How can you object to breastfeeding, unless your milk comes out somewhere else?

weegiemum · 15/09/2009 22:18

Not irritating at all. It's true.

Using "artificial" feeding for ff then makes bf more normalised.

sabire · 15/09/2009 22:20

"when your PFB is grown up they won't give a shit how you fed them"

Well - you don't know that do you? I know adults who feel quite sad when they know their mothers didn't want to breastfeed them as babies.

And what about adults with health conditions like diabetes, hypertension and breast cancer? How do they feel when they see articles suggesting possible links between methods of feeding in infancy and adults developing these conditions in later life?

sabire · 15/09/2009 22:22

I just find 'breastfeeding' a bit .....clinical, and clunky.

2shoescarriedapumpkin · 15/09/2009 22:24

sabire well ds couldn't care less and he is 17.

Ninks · 15/09/2009 22:28

Can't see the difference in connotation between artificial and formula. It isn't as if they have a strap-line on the box saying,

"Cows breast-milk meant for calves, it'll be just perfect for your human infant once it's been put through several machines and turned into powder!"

But they have those horrible adverts undermining BF. It doesn't seem fair.

I artificial / formula fed my lovely healthy DD, it's all the same to me.

theagedparent · 15/09/2009 22:31

"when your PFB is grown up they won't give a shit how you fed them"
I give a shit that my mother never even tried to breastfeed me, I suffer with crohns disease and if she had not artificially fed me I quite possibly would not be suffering. Not all of formula milk is artificial though - what about the fish eyes in it?

LeonieSoSleepy · 15/09/2009 22:32

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2shoescarriedapumpkin · 15/09/2009 22:34

oh dear, another stick to beat FF with.
so you are 100% if your mums had BF you, you would be ok.......100%?

Penthesileia · 15/09/2009 22:39

@ fish eyes.

Smug gits that we were, I remember talking with a group of friends at uni, and we were all jolly glad our mums had BF us. We were all PFBs too. What a weird conversation.

So it probably does matter to some people/PFB.

LeonieSoSleepy · 15/09/2009 22:40

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2shoes · 15/09/2009 22:42

would ff had been better?

Penthesileia · 15/09/2009 22:43

@ that Leonie!!

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hunkermunker · 15/09/2009 22:53

You're all right with what SMA stands for though, I guess?

DreamsInBinary · 15/09/2009 22:57

Not irritating at all. Factual.

TAFKAtheUrbanDryad · 15/09/2009 23:00

I take "artificial feeding" to mean bottle/cup/tube feeding though. So could be formula, could be EBM, and could be for very good reasons (ie, prem baby needing tube fed or whatever).

So no, I don't have a problem with it. But then I'm not mad on "breastfeeding" either, although I accept it's a term of convenience. I often get old ladies asking me, "Are you feeding her yourself?" and I want to say, "Yes - from my BREASTS!"

MillyR · 15/09/2009 23:03

I didn't know that about the soy formula. My friend fed hers son on soy formula because she was worried about him getting allergies to dairy if she gave him a dairy formula.

It does seem like the list of food that can have adverse health consequences grows and grows.

noddyholder · 15/09/2009 23:05

It means produced rather than natural so lets hope all bf babies are kept on an organic diet for the rest of their days with no produced anything ever.

Penthesileia · 15/09/2009 23:13

LOL Tafka.

Why, noddyholder? Would there be some kind of hideous Dorian Gray style transformation from bouncing baby to wizened gnome if they don't?

By your remark, however, I would assume that as you think that BF-ers aspire to feed their babies only natural foods, by analogy therefore, you also think that FF-ers want to raise their kids on fruit-shoots.

Wow! That's a bit judgemental of you!

ginormoboobs · 15/09/2009 23:40

No. It is correct. Formula is artificial. It is made in a factory.
Boobs are natural. They make food for a baby.

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