To want to leave DP at home whilst I go and enjoy centre parcs with the kids

[stoppinattwo]

we were supposed to leaved earlier this morning BUT he decided to go and help a mate finish a job and is still out...........

the car is packed, the kids are about to explode, and so am i............arrggghhhh

Leave him I say! Get his mate to give him a lift. Or he can sort the kids when you get there and give you some time to relax.

Might see you there, we go on Monday. Have fun when you get there.

yanbu
hope the mate is very appreciative

Leave him and go!
And take lots of wasp spray - we have just come back and we were mobbed by them every time we stepped outside

YANBU - what Hollyoaks said - get his mate to give him a lift.

Two choices:
Either leave now and make a massive point. He may learn the lesson, but will it spoil your time away when you are there when he does turn up - if he does!! If he doesn't you will have to manage the children all weekend with no break or help.
Or
Wait for him and when he does turn up, be very upset and state he has to make it up to you big time when you are away i.e let you go of the aqua sana all afternoon, treat you to a massage etc.

Either way have a super time!

You have my sympathies. My DP never sees the urgency when we're going away, I get everything packed and he decides he has to go and buy something/see someone/sit in front of the tv. Winds me up!!!

Does anyone think Stoppinattwo's dh may have returned? She's gone very quiet